I am getting more and more curious to see if my fwb would appreciate a finger up the bottom.
He is a typical man and if i asked him to douche he wouldnt have the faintest idea what i am talking about.
So id have to use a rubber glove. (which in my opinion feels nicer as it is smooth in comparison to a finger which has finger prints and noticeably more draggy)
not too sure how we'd deal with any possible mess though.
I pointed my wand on his shaft last night and he said it felt really good. then i put it on his balls lol
would like to venture more into using my wand on him.
Gloves are perfect and recommended. Lots and lots of lube on the glove and work I in. Don't rush thigh slow circular motions and ifhes ready it will open slowly get softer. The prostate isn't that deep second knuckle in usually but where most struggle to locate it to start with. Its in and up towards his pubic bone a lot like the g sot on the vaginal roof
Be carefully to such direct pressure till your used to it can be uncomfortable sweeping movements over it are bests. And take the wand put t on his perinum and press. The wand deep tissue vibes reach the Cowper's an prostate. If you press with your finger in side this kind o traps the glands between them if your lucky you will be rewarded with clear Pre cum even though he may not be erect.
Wand cock stimulation. I've cum from a andbeig ued on the head . just use oil nd don't be to light its lke an electric shock if you do lol. Concentrate on the perinum . taking dirty whilst doing it helped me orgasm
I am getting more and more curious to see if my fwb would appreciate a finger up the bottom.
He is a typical man and if i asked him to douche he wouldnt have the faintest idea what i am talking about.
So id have to use a rubber glove. (which in my opinion feels nicer as it is smooth in comparison to a finger which has finger prints and noticeably more draggy)
not too sure how we'd deal with any possible mess though.
I pointed my wand on his shaft last night and he said it felt really good. then i put it on his balls lol
would like to venture more into using my wand on him.
Gloves are perfect and recommended. Lots and lots of lube on the glove and work I in. Don't rush thigh slow circular motions and ifhes ready it will open slowly get softer. The prostate isn't that deep second knuckle in usually but where most struggle to locate it to start with. Its in and up towards his pubic bone a lot like the g sot on the vaginal roof
Be carefully to such direct pressure till your used to it can be uncomfortable sweeping movements over it are bests. And take the wand put t on his perinum and press. The wand deep tissue vibes reach the Cowper's an prostate. If you press with your finger in side this kind o traps the glands between them if your lucky you will be rewarded with clear Pre cum even though he may not be erect.
Wand cock stimulation. I've cum from a andbeig ued on the head . just use oil nd don't be to light its lke an electric shock if you do lol. Concentrate on the perinum . taking dirty whilst doing it helped me orgasm
A threesome, but I am too worried my jealous and controlling nature would take over. It would be with a woman since I am bi. I would be ok with my husband fooling around with her but when it comes down to it I'm not sure how I would react if there were any orgasms involved and it would be a definite no to kissing on the mouth. Strikes me as something that should simply remain a fantasy.
Anal play for him on the other hand. ......I am working on it!
We have tried all sorts over the last few years but unfortunately things have gone down hill a bit. We talked of visiting a swingers club after a few threesomes (MFM).
I would like to have sex with the OH in a room with other people.
I love anal play and although the OH is happy to put things up my arse he isn't keen on me returning the favour which is a shame as I'd like to try pegging.
Thanks Gentle giant, you are right there 😊 Had a good chat with oh earlier and I'm feeling a lot better about it. He is only interested in the feel of it and the fact that my hands will be free to do other things to him or even to myself and it has nothing to do with power exchange (phew) amazing what a chat can do instead of going through a lot of angst and worry. 😁
Siren - I highly recommend a sex swing. Ours doesn't come out every time we are up for some fun time but it still gets used a lot and they are worth their weight in gold. 😊
My OH enjoys butt play but hasn't been comfortable enough to let me have a go on him much. I really want to play with him more but I struggle with taking control and I don't really know what I'm doing. Would really love to eventually get to pegging though!