You may have missed the part where we are talking about a soft flogger , and gentle slaps feel oh so good . Yeah , never spank a fellow’s balls .
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We’ve never tried it, we’ll need to get a very small paddle though 
@batjamboree how did you find such a small paddle?
@lilly30 - it’s not a small paddle it’s narrow paddle and delivers a good whack on use
I have about 4 I use on the penis - it’s always best to hold the penis in one hand and spank it using the other hand and spank using a paddle similar to this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/spankers-ticklers/spanking-paddles/p/dominix-deluxe-advanced-braun-leather-paddle/a32966g58447.html
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That’s a lovely paddle for a scary lady! Why do you have 4???
I use something similar sized to spank his hands, never tried penis before.
@lilly30 . It’s what my husband asked for - so tried it and I found the end was too sensitive and the top never made a good sound - but it you hold the penis up against the man’s stomach and whack the underside it makes a good sound and he enjoys it too - also i don’t think it hurts too much as he wants it a lot - I may in the future ask if he wants me to use my cane on it
As for 4 - I have loads of paddles some hand made by my husband- he is good with wood (both types) and often works on new paddles
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Wood on jeans = lovely sound
I saw a video once of a Dominatrix using her hair steaightners ti burn a slave’s penis.
I have often wondered about having that done.
I’ve not done anything with my partner but I do enjoy spanking my penis with my had when I’m on Skype calls with other guys. I find it really gets me harder and if the other guys doing the same thing I get even excited.
@chuckychester35 - firstly welcome to the club
As for spanking your penis - I would suggest you ask your partner to do this to you - my husband loves it
He prefers when the underside is spanked - easily done - take the head and pull it up against the stomach and then spank the shaft 
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Can I ask if you do it with just your hand or with something else?
@chuckychester35 A thin paddle or wooden ruler work well
I would not use my hand - it has to sting
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Oh wow that sounds really exciting if you do it enough does he climax
@chuckychester35
I do not allow him to climax - he is a submissive and I don’t allow him any pleasure
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My oh smacked my balls the other night while giving me a head job cant say i didn’t like it a little but it did shock me as i wasn’t expecting it