Me and the wife are pretty vanilla but she asked about spicing things up. She loves her bum being lightly spanked and her hair pulled. I love her feet in my face as I’m on top.
I do love shower/bath sex too. Any tips to make things more interesting?
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I bought a flogger to hit the minimum for free shipping and it has become one of my favorite toys. Something about seeing that whip hit her butt…
Our ball gag only makes an occasional special appearance but when it does I love it.
Quick cuffs are fun and very travel friendly.
Im a big fan of our wedge but it seems to be out of stock in the UK. Also the Liberator Flip Sex Position Ramp but that seems to be US only. Both make “butt in the air” super easy and make all of the feet in the air positions easier.
I envy you the hair pulling. Strict no from Mr.s Kat.
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Sex talk is amazing- we have plays where my husband will be naked and tell me if I suck his cock he will spank my bottom but if I suck his cock and lick his balls he will spank me and f**k me …
I do similar- i will tell him that if he sucks my left nipple I will peg him with a slim 6 inch, but if he sucks my right nipple I will use a 8 inch bigger dildo - but if he sucks both and gives me oral pleasure I will spank him and peg him with all 3 dildos …
As you can appreciate we always go for best options
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What about some toys for you and her then you can watch each other play with them or use them on each other.
@RKat i am with your wife on the hair pulling. Stroking my hair is fine but if hubby pulls my hair then his is getting polled as well and he doesnt have much left and i have told him i dont like bald men.
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I’d like that. The idea of watching her with toys is a turn on. Same as I’d like her to watch me w**k too
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Absolutely love mutual watching. Honestly my favorite for mutual is just our own hands.
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I should have added - one of the areas that both the wedge and the ramp really heighten is medical play. The Bondage Boutique Vaginal Speculum is a fav of mine. As I described in my review, Mrs. Kat went from “What the heck?” to putting her feet up on my shoulders in less than a minute. Huge turn on!
Try mutual masturbation blind folded. The freedom to get off a bit differently is such a turn on and listening to ur partner is so different 
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Me blindfolded using a clit sucker and hubby flogging me, now that was hot.
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How about some costumes for her ,maybe she could be your naughty nurse and you could be the difficult patient,role play is fun
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I love dressing up, I have a few costumes which include addons for spanking. Bath (or hottub in my case) and shower are all fantastic 
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Thanks 
. We’ve discussed a few things and I want to watch her play with her toy while I masturbating next to her in the shower
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Great idea, nothing is more exciting than watching your OH playing with a toy, from what I have heard. It is my fantasy too.
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