I squirted for the first time in my life recently thanks to a wand from LoveHoney but haven’t been able to since. Are there any other squirters on here? Is it common for it to be random like this? My husband missed seeing it and I’d like to show him but I’m not sure how to recreate the experience.
My wife has just started squirting this last year or so and she’s 70. It’s still intermittent but is becoming more frequent. I think once it happens you learn how to make it happen again.
That’s reassuring, thank you. It was a shock for me when it happened so I’d also like to enjoy the experience this time round rather than panic about what a mess I’d made lol!
If you think about it too much, in my experience it’ll not happen and you’ll only end up farting
Squirting for me used to only happen with a dildo and some kind of vibration on my clit and I used the dildo and held it inside me while the orgasm builds and then when I release it the dildo as my orgasm hits then things get wetter.
Its hard to be informative without it sounding like porn.
Now my Desire wand can get me there on its own and its strange because I squirt before I orgasm with the wand. If I use the suction toy I orgasm then squirt.
@JoCat Of all the sort of replies I’d prepared myself for on a subject like this, farting certainly wasn’t on the list .
It’s interesting that it can happen in different ways like that and can depend on certain toys used in certain ways. For me, it happened when I was happily using my wand fantasising away when it suddenly hit me after about only two minutes? I squirted at the same time as I came and it was like a force that couldn’t be stopped. Shocked the hell out of me. I was only having a quick afternoon stress reliever lmao.
Maybe I’ll have a play around with different toys and just see what happens so not to pressure myself lol. Thank you for the advice
Was it purely down to the wand? I’d love to do it to my wife with a wand but she apprehensive bout toys. Any words I can help talk her round be greatly appreciated!
Well, I’ve never experienced it before now so I assume it was the wand but I honestly won’t know until it happens again. The wand I use is very powerful (doesn’t have to be if she’s nervous - there is plenty of settings for speed and patterns via the two buttons). I squirted with only a medium power/speed and used the constant vibration pattern.
I think how you approach it would be down to the root cause of her nerves. Is she feeling insecure about what changes toys could bring to your relationship or physically nervous of the sensations? Perhaps something else?
Quality wands are a game changer in my opinion and this one has been very versatile in its uses. Well worth it. My husband and I enjoy using it together immensely. There are no downsides, only joy!
It’s not just toys she apprehensive about. She orgasms best while rubbing her clit during sex but doesn’t like it otherwise unless she drunk. I have a wand in the cupboard but waiting for right moment to ‘introduce’ it to her.
Do you mean she only does it during sex and occasionally solo if drunk? If she would be more comfortable using it on her clit during sex then that would be the best way to bring it up. You could hold it for her if she feels weird about doing it herself. Just make sure you have lube, no one likes a dry clit lol. Maybe you could bring it up like the goal is for her to relax whilst you look after her every need. If she needs a drink to feel comfy then have some ready if she wants it. Open communication before hand is the key to everything new in my opinion.
No she has never masterbaited in her life 32 years old( I know!) During sex together sober like she loves me rubbing her clit while fucking her from behind,she orgasms best. She doesn’t like me rubbing or licking her otherwise unless drunk. She has an ‘outie’ vagina flaps which doesn’t bother me at all, I love her vagina but it bothers her. When she is drunk she loves it, as much as I reassure her she don’t feel comfortable. Think that’s where the apprehension with toys comes from
Well, if it’s body insecurity then toys might be even better for her. This way no one is actually touching the part of her that she’s insecure with. Any positions where you couldn’t see what was happening might make her feel better about it to begin with whilst getting used to doing something new. Just reassure her that you’ll take whatever steps necessary to make her feel comfortable. That all you want is to thoroughly pleasure her.
Body insecurity is a beast of an issue but it is so amazing when you start winning over that self-conscious voice in your head that gets in the way of everything fun.
I wish you both luck
Thank you so much for such great advice. I have told her and genuinely mean it that I want her to feel as good and orgasm as good as she possibly can. It’s more of a turn on for me to see her screaming than feeling it myself. The right moment will come one day hopefully
She might like a blindfold so that she can disconnect slightly from you and focus on the sensations, though they will be extra sensitive blindfolded so you could start with your fingers and build from there.
When mt wife first squirted it was amazing but we tried to repeat the experience but that was the problem, trying too hard to replicate. Just relax and now you know you can it will happen again. Doing in in naughty places helps!
Congratulations on your first squirting lol
When we have sex or I’m just playing on my own I squirt every time I orgasm, no matter what we are doing I always squirt it’s only been like this since me and Steve got together though previous to that I didn’t at all, but we have been together for a long time now. X
We’ve only managed it a few times in 25+ years
Those times were during me masturbating while hubby was using his fingers thrusting away inside me then pulled them out as I orgasmed
Wife squirted about a year ago which she was embarrassed about, but I found it really hot. Since then she has been so worried about doing it again and always stops me from taking her over the edge so to speak.