Statistics on escorting…

This sounds like bull to me (not saying you’re lying, just that I feel you may have been given bad info)… that it the guy who said it was bad at business.

If someone reaches out expressing interest in your service - at an inflated cost - then you wouldn’t/shouldn’t immediately drop the cost without reason.

As part of an active negotiation, maybe, but woman: ‘hey I’m looking to pay £1,000 for your services’, man: ‘nah, I’ll charge you £500’ doesn’t sound right to me.

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Well it was how it rolled in my case a number of times

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Women using a male escort is a little more common that what is thought, at least that’s my opinion. I have a former co-worker I’ve remained friends with for years. After she was widowed she was reluctant to move on and through a friend of ours connected with an escort. Really was a great convenience for her. We have another who travels most of the year for business. Says it’s great because it takes any misunderstanding away as opposed to meeting random guys.

Hubby and I used one after our first was born. We were apprehensive or better yet slow to move back into our lifestyle. We connected with him through the web as he was/is an adult performer who has his own production business where he connects with women who reach out to him. We don’t see him often anymore as he’s transitioned from escort to mainly on screen performer. Hands down some of the best sex I’ve had.

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That’s quite interesting to read about. Would you say it is more acceptable for women now to openly enjoy this sort of thing than what it was like say back in the 80s?

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I was born early 80’s so I can’t say for sure that far back. It may be more a function of age but my guess is it probably has since the acceptability of many things sexual has become more broad.

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A friend of mine paid for one to go with her to her works Christmas do…she didn’t want to go alone and also didn’t want drunken advances from the singletons from work. She wanted someone who no-one from work knew and would never see again too. It worked well for her. That’s all she wanted and paid for even though the “full package” was offered.

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Indeed, definitely think in the last decade things have become more sexually open to everyone for exploring

Think I’ve seen a film with that kinda thing happen and then they actually fell for each other lol :joy:

There really aren’t statistics for this out there.

Since we can’t insert links, if you google this topic, women who use male escorts, you’ll find many articles from like 2017 on up to now talking about this.

While there really aren’t statistics on this, it has been growing. From what level to now I can’t say.

But there are more women now who use male escorts than decades ago. Again, if you peruse Google and search about this you’ll find many different articles on this.

I won’t go into it, but info in those articles will talk about why more women do this today than before and they will list some of the reasons.

So, if you’re interested, a few clicks of the keyboard will pull up many different articles on this topic for you easily.

And in this day and age (the last 20 years too, not just today) there is a much larger grey area with this too. Meaning it’s not simply hiring a male escort from an agency.

The so-called grey zone I’m referring to now is when cougars will begin to see a younger man. The man isn’t an escort, he’s not working for an agency, he doesn’t advertise in any way, shape or form about being an escort.

But, said cougar will see a man and she will pay for their meals, their dates, then their weekends away and she will buy him gifts, cologne, clothing, watches etc. Then some of them will begin to give the man money too.

Do all cougars do this? Of course not. I haven’t said they all do or that even most do, but some do this.

Now, this works in reverse too. Sugar daddies. There are sugar babies too, getting money to pay their way through college from rich older men, or rent when they are out of college etc.

But there are women out there who are seeing men, paying for things even though for many this wouldn’t be considered as she was seeing a male escort since she didn’t go to a service and choose a man from an agency and pay a fee.

Women doing this wouldn’t show up in statistics (well, stats would have to be taken first) as they aren’t using male escorts from an actual escort agency.

There is such a big grey area in things like this.

Think of women who are exchanging sex for favors, for rent from their landlords. They may have never been a prostitute or an escort in their life but they were down on their luck and needed to do something to keep a roof over their heads, over their child’s head so they begin to “see” their landlord as a way to pay their rent.

They aren’t walking the streets, they aren’t a part of an escort agency, but they are “seeing” a man and getting something in return, either money or free rent or lowered rent etc. Women like that would never show up in any statistics either, again should such statistics ever be taken.

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Definitely a lot of good valid info here and indeed soo true on grey areas!

I’ve actually even noticed now plenty of scams going about with others offering to pay for things in return for services…