# Straight Men Using Dildos **URL:** \ **Category:** Sex Toys\ **Created:** [February 24, 2026, 1:05pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642 "2026-02-24T13:05:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![Oldman](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/oldman/32/552_2.png) [@Oldman](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Oldman)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2026, 3:48am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/21 "2026-03-04T03:48:59Z")
As a totally straight guy ( so far ) , my wife used to finger me and then pegged me until her disabilities made it impossible . She is no longer a participant , but I give her videos of me riding multiple dildos and she seems to enjoy them . I can go for days until I have a craving to have a 6” to 9” dildo sliding in and out . I found standing with them suctioned to a vertical surface , they really milk my prostrate . No way to know if she will accept it . Several suggestions above might be the way to approach her might be the way to go . Good luck ! ---
**Author:** ![BUSTYSTCLAIRE](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/bustystclaire/32/43139_2.png) [@BUSTYSTCLAIRE](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/BUSTYSTCLAIRE)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2026, 6:32am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/22 "2026-03-19T06:32:32Z")
If my husband told me he wanted to do that I would give it a try, I don’t know if it would turn me on or not. I don’t think it would turn me off, because I like seeing him enjoy himself. I think you would have to talk to your partner about it. Who knows maybe she will be totally down to do it with you. ---
**Author:** ![user331](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/u/9de0a6/32.png) [@user331](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/user331)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2026, 6:57am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/23 "2026-03-19T06:57:18Z")
I’m a straight(ish) married man who gets pegged and uses dildos. I opened up to my wife about it a few years ago and she didn’t mind at all and is happy to peg me when I ask so there are definitely women out there who don’t have a problem with it. ---
**Author:** ![CandB\_Toy\_Story](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/candb_toy_story/32/43047_2.png) [@CandB\_Toy\_Story](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/CandB_Toy_Story)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2026, 10:54am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/24 "2026-03-19T10:54:48Z")
I am a straight man and like anal play - butt plugs, beads and dildos. My OH knows and incorporates it into our love play. It’s fun and not just the preserve of gay men. All men can enjoy anal play. ---
**Author:** ![Yes\_man](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/yes_man/32/19583_2.png) [@Yes\_man](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Yes_man)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2026, 1:33pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/25 "2026-03-19T13:33:16Z")
If you like dildos and your OH is open minded enough, maybe you should bring up the idea of pegging, it adds a whole new dynamic to a relationship, not least the female being the dominant one!! They love it!! ---
**Author:** ![CandB\_Toy\_Story](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/candb_toy_story/32/43047_2.png) [@CandB\_Toy\_Story](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/CandB_Toy_Story)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2026, 2:13pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/26 "2026-03-19T14:13:22Z")
Very much looking forward to being pegged ---
**Author:** ![Yes\_man](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/yes_man/32/19583_2.png) [@Yes\_man](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Yes_man)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2026, 3:02pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/27 "2026-03-19T15:02:45Z")
Its a must, the more you she fucks your ass, the more you’ll both want it!! ---
**Author:** ![CandB\_Toy\_Story](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/candb_toy_story/32/43047_2.png) [@CandB\_Toy\_Story](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/CandB_Toy_Story)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2026, 3:04pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/28 "2026-03-19T15:04:23Z")
It’s at the top of my wish list and I believe you, I really want her to fuck my ass ---
**Author:** ![Yes\_man](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/yes_man/32/19583_2.png) [@Yes\_man](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Yes_man)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2026, 4:29pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/29 "2026-03-19T16:29:38Z")
You might even find the larger you want to go to, my OH’s cock is huge!! 9inch circumference, 10 inch long!!!😏😏😏 ---
**Author:** ![CandB\_Toy\_Story](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/candb_toy_story/32/43047_2.png) [@CandB\_Toy\_Story](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/CandB_Toy_Story)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2026, 4:32pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/30 "2026-03-19T16:32:07Z")
10 inches - cor!! ---
**Author:** ![I\_ll\_try\_anything](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/i_ll_try_anything/32/43381_2.png) [@I\_ll\_try\_anything](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/I_ll_try_anything)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2026, 4:56pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/31 "2026-03-19T16:56:31Z")
Straight married man who loves a bit of p-spot play. Two lifelike dildos, one of them thrusting, a two foot long tentacle type of thing, a smooth G-spot dildo and a large variety of butt plugs. My OH is not that into anal so unless we’re testing I tend to use them solo. If testing, she likes to watch and find out what I like .. for science. ---
**Author:** ![Yes\_man](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/yes_man/32/19583_2.png) [@Yes\_man](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Yes_man)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2026, 10:31pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/33 "2026-03-19T22:31:34Z")
TBF, its more the girth that makes the difference!! ---
**Author:** ![phil76](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/phil76/32/43413_2.png) [@phil76](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/phil76)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2026, 6:09pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/34 "2026-03-20T18:09:17Z")
As I get older I think things like this should be an open and honest conversation! It’s the sort of conversation I’d tend to have during post sex cuddles as we lay there thinking about things and enjoying the moments. Anal play was something we spoke about and I’d confessed to using beads on myself that we’d bought for her but never used and she was intrigued and we both have our own set of beads but never used them together! There’s an anal douche in our toy box that she has used but think we might need a second one and explore this more!! 😈😈😈 ---
**Author:** ![smallpurpled](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a9a28c/32.png) [@smallpurpled](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/smallpurpled)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2026, 10:08pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/35 "2026-03-20T22:08:01Z")
As others have said, there’s really no one-size-fits-all answer. Frankly, some women would very much not like the idea and others would love it, with many in between. My partner knows about all the toys I have, and she has a few herself as lots of women do. They’re all stored in the same drawers (but physically separated of course for hygiene). She doesn’t judge, because that would be hypocritical, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that she’d get hot at the idea of me using them. I’m more impressed that she didn’t see the new 3” diameter butt plug and scream at the thought - although she was curious if I’d been able to use it. I said I was working on it, and I think she was simply happy that I’m happy and getting use out of my toys. ---
**Author:** ![CandB\_Toy\_Story](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/candb_toy_story/32/43047_2.png) [@CandB\_Toy\_Story](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/CandB_Toy_Story)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2026, 10:26pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/36 "2026-03-20T22:26:17Z")
Welcome to the forum @smallpurpled looks like you have lots to contribute ---
**Author:** ![smallpurpled](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/a9a28c/32.png) [@smallpurpled](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/smallpurpled)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2026, 10:34pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/37 "2026-03-20T22:34:39Z")
Thanks, yeah I’ve been looking for somewhere like here for a while. Seems like a nice place with nice folks. ---
**Author:** ![teacake](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/teacake/32/23502_2.png) [@teacake](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/teacake)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2026, 9:23am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/38 "2026-03-21T09:23:53Z")
When it comes to different things like men using dildos, If I was a woman I would think along these lines if it’s something that gets you off then it’s something that would excite me to. Everyone is different in what they like to see what is a turn on or turn off, you will probably know if it’s something she would like to know. If it was me I would probably have a nice chat about it and explain why you like it and was worried how you feel about it. ---
**Author:** ![bam.jestar](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f4b2a3/32.png) [@bam.jestar](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/bam.jestar)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2026, 2:02pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/39 "2026-03-21T14:02:01Z")
Im a straight male i use dildos, oh even bought my most recent 1 she loves watching me use them and sometimes uses them on me ---
**Author:** ![Sniffer21](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/13edae/32.png) [@Sniffer21](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Sniffer21)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2026, 1:36am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/40 "2026-03-25T01:36:12Z")
I asked my wife about this while we were driving back from a vacation while she was in a good mood. She’s the kind that has to consider things for awhile so I let it drop. It was about 3 weeks before anything happened. She has grown in to this activity now and gives me great pleasure. So choose your moment carefully and don’t be pushy but explain about all the nerve endings and the prostate giving immense pleasure. There are many online articles about how common it is for straight men and the benefits. If it’s a red line for her you best drop it and carry on yourself. ---
**Author:** ![Northseaguy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/48db29/32.png) [@Northseaguy](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Northseaguy)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2026, 12:31pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642/41 "2026-03-25T12:31:58Z")
Exactly this. I’ve mentioned it a few times in the past. During an in depth discussion it became a hard no from the OH. Now I just indulge myself when I can. [Previous page](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642.md?page=1) [Next page](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/straight-men-using-dildos/326642.md?page=3)