Strange request from my partner

Sex Tips & Talk
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Hi,

My girlfriend and i have a very good sex life, open to ideas and willing to try new stuff etc... But i was a bit taken a back when my other half shared a new fantasy of hers.

She wants to watch me eat my own cum either after masturbating or off her body. Now i know this isnt as taboo as it once was but im still struggling to get my head around it.

Any other women understand this fantasy and the thinking behind it?

I want to do it as we try are best to please each others wishes, so basically just wondering if anybody had come across a similar fantasy and how you dealt with it.

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i think that would be pretty hot if im honest ..

i couldnt tell you the THINKING behind it .. its just .. some people find stuff hot , some dont i guess *shrugs*

if youre not comfortable doing it , then its best to be honest with her . perhaps comprimise slightly buy cumming inside her then going down on her ? then it will be mingled with her juices an perhaps not seem so directly like youre chowing down on your own sppunk ?

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My girlfriend didn't have such a fantasy... well, not yet. But if she asked me to do such a thing I would do it for sure. I always like to try new stuff, especially when it is her idea.

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If you think of this logically then I suppose the thinking behind it is just the reverse of a man wanting a woman to "swallow" when she gives a bj. If a guy gets turned on by this then why shouldn't a woman be turned on by the reverse.???

BTW Seamonkey - I've done that in the past - it tastes OK

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Thanks for the replies guys.

I think its just in my head, the thought of it kinda puts me off but im willing to try it.

The point about watching a woman taste themselves is a good one, i enjoy watching her taste herself on her fingers.

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i sortve had this fantasy,and finally got my bf to do it, mine was for me to suck and take his cum then have a full snog with him , i found it so erotic we started again, he wasnt keen at first but when he did say yes it was amazing ( maybe not for him still) dont care if we dont do it again as that time was all i needed to satisfy the urge,

good luck with it

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well my partner will practicly throw me accross the room in fear if i even try and kiss him after him coming in my moth...so i like to try and make him. its funny.

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i think / fantasise about the OH cumming inside me and then him going down on me and sucking me out and then having sex all over and again........we have tried it once ... we were both quite drunk and we went on to have" it "all over again......i really enjoyed it but it has never happened again ( not sure if the Oh half doesnt want to or with kids around not the right time , as was in a hotel the 1st time on our own )

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for me, it is a complete turn off!

I love swallowing his cum, and i will gladly lick it off if he has cum on me, but i have no desire to see him take it.

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dimplecheek wrote:

i sortve had this fantasy,and finally got my bf to do it, mine was for me to suck and take his cum then have a full snog with him , i found it so erotic we started again, he wasnt keen at first but when he did say yes it was amazing ( maybe not for him still) dont care if we dont do it again as that time was all i needed to satisfy the urge,

good luck with it

This is one thing I've suggestted to the missus, but she's not up for it at all. A little too messy I guess :p

I would definitely like to cum inside her and then go down on her. The idea of tasting the two of us together is a big turn on. The only other way I think I'd enjoy eating my own cum, is if she was being particularly dominant and made me lick her clean, or something like that.

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I think it's an interesting one.

I'd want my OH to ask me to do it first, but if she guggested, I'd be up for it 100%.

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i eat my cum out my wife after sex and it makes her orgasm

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My partner often goes down on me after sex and will lick it of my body to. Its not something i suggested and i don't think i ever would have but i do enjoy it.
I think the reason i like it is an intimacy thing. I know he's never done it with anyone else.

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Ill be completely honest it would be a turn off for me. I just don't get what the attraction is.
To be fair it turns my stomach when a woman in porn is licking it up even though I swallow (its rude not to) xx

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I love to come on my partners, and my OH loves me licking her out after I've come in her. Never thought of licking it off her tits but I find nothing wrong with the idea: the more I think about it the hotter it seems

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Damn thats hot .......love it when a love cums inside of me and then goes down on me. Makes my orgasm even more intense knowing he is tasting himself and me at the same time.

I often lick my fingers after I have masturbated , I adore the taste of myself so don't see why a guy tasting himself is any different.

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Just go for it and give it a try I'd say. I bet you get a kick just as much as she does. If not, well what's the worst that could happen?

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Yeah go for it. Pretty sure she would snog you, after you going down on her. Similar thing really?

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If you want to get your head around it or know the thinking behing it you're going to have to ask her. Just make sure it's in a non-judgemental way if you do. If you do decide to try this remember you can stop at any time too if it's not working for you.

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Personally I wouldn't do that if was requested by my partner. However if your willing to try something new and your not being pressured into anything you don't want to do then I don't see why you can't. Maybe brush your teeth first or suck on a mint before hand though to change the taste abit though. Goodluck x