When my darling and I have bought a dildo (or strap-on magic flash) which has a very pleasant texture we experimented it in combination with bondage. I found it very horny but also exciting when we were exterminating techniques of using it. Before I had only a vibrator (of things of such kind) and it was a little bit funny to make moves like man do ;) When we use toys we usually don't use any lubricant because we are so excited and wet that we don't feel a need for it, but we use a lot of condoms because we think that it's more hygienic that way. I would like to try some more other/new things and I'd be happy to try some of your products.