Strapon Help Request - Newbies (confortable harness advise)

Hiya All,

My wife and I are trying to be more experimental and naughty with each other and recently we came on to the idea of strapon sex. She brought it up after some anal play and I am keen on the idea.

I have been looking at strapon kits and want to ensure that I get something comfortable for my wife and all the harnesses look a little uncomfortable to me.

Can you reccomend and of the LoveHoney items?

Ideally I would like her to get some pleasure too, maybe something that rubs her or vibrates on her clit or something like that. We have recently been using some anal beads and one thing she likes doing is pretending to fuck me whilst wanking me and she rubs her clit on the last bead. I am not sure if women can get pleasure from strapons/harnesses etc, we are completel newbies in this and are looking for some advise and help.

I am quite relaxed and we have been working my ass but probably wont take anything too large still.

I like her to be dressed in sexy underwair etc with heels so I assume having underware under the harness helps, but I would like to get something that doesn't put her off by chaffing etc.

Please help.

Love and Regards

Matt

Hi there, I don't personally have any experience with this, but there are a couple of LH guides that may be useful to you :) x

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/buyers-guide/strap-on-harnesses-guide/

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/strap-ons/buyers-guide/strap-on-harnesses-compatible-dildos-and-o-rings/

How about a strapless strap-on?Those are inserted inside of her,so she'll feel pleasure while playing with you.

Some examples:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17044

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16276

They both also vibrate!Looks like a world of fun to me.

Kittyondrugz wrote:

How about a strapless strap-on?Those are inserted inside of her,so she'll feel pleasure while playing with you.

Some examples:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17044

And a vibrating one:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16276

Hiya,

Thanks for your reply. I did think of this but wasn't sure there would be enough support for her when thrusting. I see the strapless ones as more of stage two for us :-).

I don't have any strap on experience myself (yet) but always think this sort of style of harness looks really comfy http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28038

I'm in a rush so can't browse right now but I'm sure I've seen similar with a pocket to slip a bullet into for some clit stimulation for her :)

Spoonerism wrote:

I don't have any strap on experience myself (yet) but always think this sort of style of harness looks really comfy http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28038

I'm in a rush so can't browse right now but I'm sure I've seen similar with a pocket to slip a bullet into for some clit stimulation for her :)

Hiya,

Yeah, I look at that I am very curious on it, it looks pretty good.

MD

The guide that Scopius posted is really helpful so definitely give that a read!

From personal experience I would highly reccomend the Rodeo range. They are so comfy and these are pretty sexy on too! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28038

They are compatible with 1.5 O-ring dildos. The tantus range are what I use and this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13884 is a great size for a begginer after some build up with a plug and beads and so on.

Khaleesi wrote:

The guide that Scopius posted is really helpful so definitely give that a read!

From personal experience I would highly reccomend the Rodeo range. They are so comfy and these are pretty sexy on too! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28038

They are compatible with 1.5 O-ring dildos. The tantus range are what I use and this one http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13884 is a great size for a begginer after some build up with a plug and beads and so on.

Ah ok cool, thanks for the suggestions, i'll go have a look at the tantus range.

I would recommend either one of these items. Both are great for beginners.

Doc Johnson's Gal Pal
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=21222&reviewpage=1#customer_reviews

Sportsheets Newcomers Kit
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2442