Struggling to be dominating

I'm seeing someone and he's keen for me to dominate him, get into bondage with him etc. Now in the past this has been something I'd loved doing, I was really confident about it, but a partner I was sleeping with just before this guy was REALLY dominating, so I took a sub role and its thrown me off. Now when I try to be dominating, even in all the get-up, i just choke my words and generally feel so uncomfortable. Does anyone have any advice for me? changing roles has really thrown me off!

I'm the sub too and that's how I love it but maybe you could watch some BDSM Clips and practice what they say! You could also ask him what he'd like to hear, but I would do this outside of the bedroom! Maybe make him wear a blindfold too so you feel less self conscious? X