I'm seeing someone and he's keen for me to dominate him, get into bondage with him etc. Now in the past this has been something I'd loved doing, I was really confident about it, but a partner I was sleeping with just before this guy was REALLY dominating, so I took a sub role and its thrown me off. Now when I try to be dominating, even in all the get-up, i just choke my words and generally feel so uncomfortable. Does anyone have any advice for me? changing roles has really thrown me off!
I'm the sub too and that's how I love it but maybe you could watch some BDSM Clips and practice what they say! You could also ask him what he'd like to hear, but I would do this outside of the bedroom! Maybe make him wear a blindfold too so you feel less self conscious? X