Mixing households is tricky right now, especially with the new rules. Is there not a neutral location you could arrange to meet at instead? It might be better to talk to your daughter without your ex being there anyhoo.
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At the moment my ex is just being stubborn she doesnât want me involved what so ever, I mean what parent doesnât to the other parent that their daughter has gone down hill badly with her eating, bad enough to be admitted to hospital.
Not a chance of me seeing my daughter anytime soon on my own, we both think itâs not a good idea for daughter to have a child, Iâm pretty sure I could get through to my daughter but itâs a chat that canât be done in the car or anywhere else, my daughter needs to feel comfortable. What it is with my ex she doesnât want me to have that close bond with my daughter that I had that my ex never had. My ex keeps putting the idea to my daughter that the reason I canât come over is we argue all the time, nope so not true, whatâs happened in the past is the past, Iâm totally over my ex, she is to afraid Iâm going to tell my daughter how my ex went behind my back.
It proves it that we donât argue because when my ex phoned me up to say that our daughter was pregnant we were on the phone for at least a hour with no bad words just chatting like we were friends.
If your ex doesnât want you to come round to her house for whatever reason then thatâs her perogative. 
Is there no way you can arrange to meet your daughter at another location? Maybe a long walk? A car is actually a good idea as youâre not facing each other, so can be a bit more open without feeling like youâre being scrutinised. Even a phone call would help if thereâs really no other option.
Iâd say focus on what you can do, not what you think youâre being blocked from doing. She must be feeling all over the place right now, and may just need someone to offload on. 
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@Ian_Chimp No my daughter wouldnât feel comfortable talking to me inside the car, there should be no reason why I canât come over to see my daughter itâs just my ex being nasty, Considering that my daughter pays rent towards the home, my daughter wants me to come over.
What you have to remember my daughter is very ill with her eating, then I have my ex saying she is doing it on her own, thatâs her choice because she wonât let me in. Itâs all very complicated.
I replied originally thinking this was the Lounge, so I apologise for going off-topic. I have flagged it though, so Brenna should shufty us across when sheâs back in.
Iâll reply in The Lounge
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