How do you know if you are a squirter (this is all new to me ) I know it sounds daft but without actually asking your partner what does it actually feel like ? My sex life was very bland before and orgasms were very few but the new man in my life has yet to fail at multiple orgasms but every time we have sex I feel this incredible urge to pee one I used to hold back but I can’t with him ! I always use the bathroom first and having read many posts I now wonder if it’s actually squirting ? What are your thoughts ?! X
Good question. I'm intrigued too. Remember everyone is different. I have only experienced what I imagine to be 'squirting' once, early in my relationship with my husband. I completely involuntarily soaked the sheets - I didn't even realise it was me rather than him until later, and I can't think of anything we did which triggered it. It has never happened again, however wet and turned on I get, and we are both a lot more experienced together now. I don't think squirting is the same as peeing - it wasn't for me.
When I orgasm alone, with higher power toys, it feels like I'm going to wet myself - gets very warm down there, but results in serveral strong muscle spasms rather than squirting. With my husband I find climaxing is more gentle (but with that loving element of enjoying each other too, which you don't get solo) but still happens several times with a combination of internal and external stimulation.
We are still learning and experimenting ;-). I'm not sure if age makes a difference - squirting seems to be a thing with younger folk, but I'm interested too. Maybe others will chip in...
Hi, that feeling of needing to pee is common building up to squirting, if by saying you can't hold back you mean you continue through to release then there is a pretty good chance you are squirting. It's different for everyone and often different on difference occasions for the same person, for some people it's more of a fish than a squirt, some people it's a lots, some not so much. For me I can only describe it as an incredible feeling of release. A lot of people find it hard to relax past that need to pee feeling, but if you go to the loo first as you say you do you can relax knowing it's not pee and if you manage it a few times you can start to recognise how it feels different from peeing. You said you have read lots of threads but this was a recent one that was very informative, in case you haven't seen it https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/1770188-are-they-the-same/
AmyA wrote:
It's different for everyone and often different on difference occasions for the same person, for some people it's more of a fish than a squirt, some people it's a lots, some not so much.
I'm guessing that's a typo for 'gush'. Though I'm also hoping it's not. 🙂
Ian Chimp wrote:
AmyA wrote:
It's different for everyone and often different on difference occasions for the same person, for some people it's more of a fish than a squirt, some people it's a lots, some not so much.
I'm guessing that's a typo for 'gush'. Though I'm also hoping it's not. 🙂
Oh my goodness 😱🤭 I really need to read through my writing before I post lol! Sorry yes, it should say GUSH!
What I would say is if you watch porn then the squirting some of those women do this beyond epic proportions please don’t compare yourself to them. I usually find I squirt as I climax I have stopped trying to hold it in i do go to the toilet before getting into bed and I always place something on the bed as I can’t stand lying in wet sheets. Everyone produces different amounts and at different times. I find I probably squirt more during masturbation depending on which toy I have used
It's usualy not pee when it squirts out into the air at some point, and its clear. Try tasting or smelling it, when I first did my partner tasted it and said it was sweet and nothing like pee in the slightest. The urge to pee is pressure building up inside you, which is most likley you building up to squirting. But, if you pee, you pee, sex is messy anyway so just go along with it and youl see and you'll gradually get used to the difference in feeling. I know it's not pee becuase it just comes out of nowhere and its a huge release, an actual orgasum is better than squirting though. But, everyone is totaly difference so try not to compair otherwise this kind of stuff can become a mindfeild haha!
Ok my wife is a lucky bugger in that hewr womaniser premium has made her squirt EVERY time without fail. Now it's like she's peeing. But I drink it/taste it and it's nothing like pee. It has varying strength but not pee like. It's warm and gushes strong. Sometimes she can squirt almost cum like white liquid and that's stunning. Yes she feels like she's gonna pee as mentioned but it's not pee. I adore it.