A friend has confided in me recently that the sex with her new partner isn't very good...! I advised her to try talking to him about sex in general, finding out what he likes etc but apparently he's a little shy and seems to find it difficult to talk about. She says he is good with his hands but otherwise he is generally lacking any passion and totally lacks any rhythm, so even when she is on top he either just lies there or if he joins in he is always out of sync and it ends up getting awkward! Although he has had more sexual partners than her he doesn't seem to have much confidence and she has apparently heard him muttering something that suggests he knows it's not good...poor guy!
Having never had this problem myself I do my best to reassure her but we continue to muse about how easy it is to teach someone good sex? Any tips and advice people?
HOW TO TEACH GOOD SEX TO A LOVELY BUT UNCONFIDENT SHY GUY WITH NO RHYTHM?!