@Stacy2 Technically there already is a “How big are your boobies” thread - however, I can totally see how this could make people feel. The “how big…” positions larger as better, which I’m sure wasn’t the intention of the OP’s, however, I will change both these threads to “what size is…” instead 
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I did mention it in one of the threads, but as this is a body positive forum, i don’t think the “How big is, or what size is your” topics are helpful or informative. In my opinion based on the comments on such topics all they do is make a lot of people feel insecure or inadequate and give certain types the platform to brag.
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I agree @WillC like how many cock sized based threads do we need???
There seems to be quite a few at the moment…and I’m one that’s tried huge both vaginally and orally and no way is it a good thing.
But then I guess if that is stopped it’s a big can of worms being opened…
Then some might say the when did you last have sex…give/receive oral and anal might make some people think what they have sexually is inadequate too and might make them doubt things…
It’s a tough one…
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True, but you can change those things. Changing the dimensions of a body part isn’t so easy, nor is accepting what genetics gave you and not feeling inadequate. Especially when people are claiming to have unfeasibly large body parts as if that’s a good thing.
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Maybe the wording is part of the issue. I don’t see any difference from “what size is your cock” or “Penis Size” 
There are so many threads about it and judging by the recent ones, such topics are not helping with body confidence.
Like many others I think such topics cause more insecurities than anything else. People join the forum, see the numbers and instantly compare.
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I do understand the point that people compare themselves and feel bad if they don’t measure up, but if people can’t discuss this sort of thing here, then where can they?
Obviously we don’t need constant topics on the subject (although topics tend to trend, we get quite a few about a specific topic then something else will come up and be loads on that and so on), but this is a pretty friendly place so it’s not like people are being directly humiliated, and a lot of people have questions are sex or their bodies that they don’t feel they can ask their friends so do turn to the internet. Wondering “am I normal” can be as damaging as any answer. As long as the topic stays constructive and in the spirit of learning and accepting yourself, I don’t see a problem.
Posts that can showcase that there are a lot of different preferences out there and you will find people who do match with you, are a good thing in my opinion.
Plus, where do we draw the line as to what is ok? I’m sure there are people who look at the lingerie photo thread and it makes them feel a little self conscious, likewise not all toys work for everyone so should we not have topics about toys that we enjoyed in case someone feels disparaged because it didn’t work for them?
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I dont think we should compare one another at all that is half the problem with the world today always competing and comparing on what other people have got.
We are all different and thats what makes us individuals and who we are.
The size doesn’t matter its about having that special bond with someone you love and care about
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Couldn’t agree more. As a poly person I’ve had a partner play favourites and I’ve been asked to pick a favourite. I can’t, I love and have loved, no two are the same and I would hate to be compared to anyone else. I may not have the biggest boobs but I’m me and that’s all that really matters, I like my smaller boobs anyway. I think they’re more fun to play with, even if nobody else agrees 
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I’d say I can handle quite a big one maybe like 7/8 inches. Have had a guy bigger than that and it started to hurt…
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@Ellax So is it a preference for you that the guy be large ?
Back around to part of the original question , the engineering . As a former emergency medical technician and amateur gynecologist , in my opinion there are infinite reasons why a given penis and vagina may not work well together . It may have little to do with the length or girth . As a generalization , when younger most women are quite juicy and that alone can aid in working with a larger penis . There is a somewhat physical limit that everyone will differ in . Aside from lube there is most defiantly limits . Over the years my penis has been in several vaginas . I am average and had receivers that I had a hell of a time trying to ever so slowly work it in all the way . Also the opposite , the classic joke " is it in yet ?" I have fond memories of several women that were masters of operating their pussies . I mean , they could do amazing things like absolutely “grab’ and milk my cock until I was a babbling idiot . I swear several could cut a banana or cucumber into neat slices . Even with my modest 6” , I have had women that could not physically take it all .
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Genuine question from an average 6 inchish guy, to those receiving a PIV… i’m of the understanding that the sensitive erogenous areas of the vagina are around the entrance and G spot ( couple of inches within) . Would the girth of the penis not be more important than length, as too long starts to bruise the cervix….cant imagine that being pleasurable? The girth should simulate the outer and immediate inner areas of the vagina. Obviously too short has restrictions on certain athletic positions.
On naked Attraction, once the presenter, Anna Ricardson explained, as a lady became more aroused, the internal length of the vagina actually gets longer. Could possibly answer some questions.
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Yes it does get longer but it is not an ever lengthening tunnel and many women have their limits. I have not had children so that may have something to do with why some women are able to take more, i wouldnt know about that.
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I do prefer girth over length as it hits the right spots but a bit too girthy and it can really sting, sometimes i feel like i am going to spilt as hubby is tapered so he is girthy at the base and the last couple of times we have had piv he has really stretched me, but at least my cervix is not bruised.
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On the other hand, my wife has a definite girth limitation after childbirth because if it pushes her into that “ring of fire” territory she gets labor flashbacks and it really kills the mood! 
At the end of the day, even “average” is a wide range of anatomy and preference and even more variation per individual based on where in her cycle and situationally specific arousal.
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It’s not the penis size that I like, it’s the enthusiasm and dedication to feeling good together that I enjoy during sex. Porn isn’t realistic, it just for show. Vaginas are flexible and can fit a variety of sizes without “stretching out” or losing their elasticity. So even if a woman has had a man with a giant penis previously, that doesn’t mean she no longer enjoys smaller penises. I am sure no two vaginas feel the same either.
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