lesley i think thats totally true, you learn soo much about your partner and that helps the sex get better and feeling comfortable in your own skin with them helps too, ive never seen a post about a quickie being the 'best sex ever'
also i was a virgin until i met OH and hes my one and only BF (now fiance) ever, hes my first and hopefully my only man.
and he respected that sex didnt need rushing he didnt want to ruin our relationship by jumping into bed we didnt have sex for the first 3-4 months, i still remember, it was our first xmas as a couple and our first time was on boxing day night, couldnt stop smiling next morning