(As requested by Brenna, I will reply here instead of clogging up the other thread.)
I do have a great friendship with my friend C, having known him twenty plus years. He is an ex-colleague who I’ve kept in touch with. Since his divorce and house move he has a new partner and has relaxed more and become a good confidante.
Only have one other friend, A who I was at school with being his best man etc. He is a bit prudish & giggly though over personal matters and doesn’t share as much. His wife L is far more open and has occasionally discussed their sex life in the past.
She has also chatted to me about my penis when I mentioned about possibly needing a circumcision and asked to see it. No other element to that at all, just a friend wanting to advise. A went to put the kettle on though at that point !
Anyone else here have such good friends ?
We are lucky that we have two very close couples who we can talk though anything with. My partner also has one work friend who she is close with and that helps too.