It’s a sad fact that many people believe the criticism but never the praise, no matter how true.
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@EmmaC1989 how is the dog today
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@AWB1955 fine, it was just a repeat prescription.
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ok as long as he is ok how has your day been i have been under the weather
@AWB1955 up early hours passing a kidney stone 
sorry to hear that hope it passed
As lovely as I think the sentiment is, we’ve got to remember that a lot of forum members keep a degree of anonymity for a reason. I feel very comforted by @CurvyJilly’s presence and warmth on the forum and like many, I miss her too. But she also separated home life and LH and was very private, and I feel finding her elsewhere on the internet is a little invasive.
I totally understand it’s with good intentions and for all the right reasons, especially after her most recent posts. Let’s all just hope she returns soon 
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Yes you’re right. It’s how she left that concerned me that’s all. But yes nothing will be done re trying to contact her. As you say let’s just hope she returns soon. P.s imagine the amount of people I’d have to go through and that’s ‘if’ she’s on there 
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I totally understand. There’s a lot of love for her on this forum
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Hopefully she’ll return, she is well liked here, and visiting and interacting with us kept her spirits up. She knows she has good friends in us, so fingers crossed. 
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Sorry guys I was on the road driving back from work tea and shower but I just want to agree with you all @WillC @For_Your_Eyes_Only_x @MsSubExperimenter @Orgasm_Chaser we all bonded with her and found she is an extraordinary lady with a fantastic sense of humour which we all got and her with us in turn
none of us are judgemental and just want to support her and we all miss her and hope she is safe and well ? Just have to keep trying to add her in the forum @CurvyJilly 
miss you hun
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@For_Your_Eyes_Only_x I couldn’t agree more with this. I too massively miss @CurvyJilly and really hope she comes back, but I wouldn’t ever want anyone to start trying to track me down outside of the LH forum even if it were for the best reasons 
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I would. ‘call the search party’ of I haven’t said bye there’s something wrong
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No. It is invasive on a private forum to try to find someone outside of it.
People have every right to disappear from internet forums without explaining themselves.
If anything is wrong, people have real life friends and relatives who can take appropriate action.
However we feel about friendships made online, this is the way it works on an anonymous forum.
We all understand that when we join.
It doesn’t mean we don’t care, but we can’t chase people down.
There are boundaries to be respected.
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I don’t mean to sound harsh and I hope @CurvyJilly is ok and has her own reasons for taking some time out, but this isn’t Facebook.
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I think @Orgasm_Chaser is just very caring and concerned, there’s no harm or invasion of privacy intended.
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I agreed @MsR and did say I wouldn’t be trying to look for her. I tried to be a bit light-hearted and say that if I didn’t come on then ‘call the search party’
Just to clarify to everyone this hasn’t gone outside the forum. I have stopped printing the ‘missing’ posters.
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Does anyone else always think it’s Sunday every time they wake up in the morning? I mean every time.
Every bloody time, except on Sunday 
this is so true! Sad, but true!