Yes I think it would be massive overload to introduce lots of different aspects at once, so maybe leave that for a bit & concentrate on the main area of interest. I’d book Friday night in for a ‘knicker night’, if you are both in the right place, then hopefully it will be good
In my experience with introducing new things, a week after the original occurrence/suggestion seems to be about the right interval, still fresh enough in the mind but one isn’t pushing it constantly like a hungry dog !
Make it about her and mention. “Oh I loved what YOU did to me, it was so amazing” etc a couple of times and gauge the reaction again. Later on in the evening, go out of the room dressed normally and return in just some underwear and say “Right that’s it, I can’t wait for YOU anymore”
@Simon_101 thanks for the recommendation
Right now I have no lingerie of my own
I went through the panic cycle about getting found out
So at some point I will get maybe just a pair of panties or maybe something like a chemise to wear and try something along the lines of what you’re suggesting
Thank you for the big hugs @Craig1234 but you hug trees too don’t you? trouble is I can’t afford the sausage rolls … on my waist have a great day Love x
Hopefully I can answer all your points, please note this is not meant to be an erotic story, just an explanation of what happened.
Being naked socially is totally normal to us, sexual thoughts are not part of it really, you just disassociate the two things.
It was indeed slightly bizarre that my o/h went down that avenue of conversation, showing them the pic (one I posted on LH) of me in her knickers on her phone was ridiculous and I do not know why she then dared to fetch the garment. The reaction of A was odd too, as if it was the most normal thing in the world for your best mate’s wife to bring her underwear for you to feel.
From many years of chat, we know they are just a bit vanilla and a ‘once a month in the dark’ type of couple with no real desires.
When they noticed me finding the chat arousing, it was also strange because it wasn’t an “omg you weirdo” but more “oh be careful of your operation” type of reaction, so both really didn’t care at all, again odd considering how they are.
As I mentioned on the other post, the fact L had been before been touching my chest playfully pulling out the odd grey hair didn’t bother me at all, I found that annoying more than anything, but what possessed her to be so both bold and childish I don’t know either.
Thank you @steve19 for your lovely comments… phew nearly nodded off a couple of times already - Pen phoned to say she got up at 10am … the old sausage n egg meal kept me going until lunchtime and we think we may have glimpsed you when out on the prowl - sure looked like a rolling pin - enjoy the rest of the day and have a great weekend too Lover xx
Well, yesterday’s experiment worked.
Just having the quilt cover on the bed was fine. It was 23⁰ when we went to bed, and it’s the same now. We have the terrace door open and I have just a pair of cotton PJ shorts on as I drink my “frothy coffee”
I think summer is here
What is it like down your end @batjamboree ?
Have a good Sunday all
Ah, always hugs for you @Latino_Caliente hopefully your domestic situation will improve soon… your working clothes and two waistcoats are fine… you must look like the Builder from Village People … he would be worth a hug or two … Love xx
Nah, don’t worry about lack of pinstripes @steve19 , that’s not the deciding factor, its more about the hanky, toilet roll, flannel, baguette … the French Knickers are nice and “airy” as you say… enjoy rest of the day Lover xx
Edit:- Sorry @MsSubExperimenter
I didn’t realise posting a link back to another thread was against forum rules.
I know I can’t post images apart from in the Your Photos thread, but I thought a link was ok.
Big apologies…it won’t happen again
No worries @Latino_Caliente it didn’t come up as a link to another topic on the forum, it came up as a totally separate image link which is why I removed it
Thank you @steve19 for your lovely comments, they really are much appreciated because it does take time and effort first thing in the morning - worst time of the day for such things - and all the time (except yesterday and today) being antagonised by the Harpy aka “Pen” … nice pin striper you got? Pity about that baguette but at least staved off your hunger We saw you at lunchtime, not a disappointment at all, indeed quite the opposite, so keep it up and enjoy the rest of the day Lover xx
Get ordering off Lovehoney and when the package arrives, say “Oh good, this is for BOTH of us to wear”
… the old sausage n egg meal kept me going until lunchtime and we think we may have glimpsed you when out on the prowl - sure looked like a rolling pin 
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… nice pin striper you got? Pity about that baguette but at least staved off your hunger