Im defo going to have a talk when he gets home.
We use to have very open chats and i have said rcently what i would like and asked but i get closed answers
Good luck and let us know how you get on … just gauge it’s the right time, and go in steady on the subject but be open how you feel, unloved , hurt etc and you just need to understand why he’s not interested or trying…. Tiredness is not an excuse sometimes yes but not years unless just stuck in demanding life rut.
Break it and reignite fingers crossed for you
I would just love it if my wife wore some sexy lingerie. ?For me I don’t think you can beat it. Especially if combined with stockings / suspenders. I would not be interested in wearing her’s myself. I think you need to talk with your partner. Good luck.
People all have different tastes to what they feel aroused to so maybe he don’t find lingerie a turn on but has a different liking to discover. Perhaps try asking him for some hints
If you are into lingerie and he isnt the biggest fan, maybe try both compromising and sometimes wearing it, sometimes not.
Definitely have a discussion. Explain that you like wearing it and why you enjoy it. Lingerie is for you too, not just for him.
I find it helps me feel more confident and its also nice when i have a bad day to dress up.
Some great advice on here, lots of good points.
Hope it goes well
i have an unfortunately its like getting blood from a stone.
I wear sets daily but wanted to wear something more in bedroom, i feel makes me more confident and i wanna get the spark back as we lacking in bedroom department.
From a mans pov…lingerie is the the sexiest thing…we have a baby that is in our bed all the time! Don’t much chance these days, everyone different but lingerie outfits are hard to not get aroused by…if not lingerie sets then maybe try outfits? Dude if you feel sexy in on it then what else matters? Sexiest thing bout lady is lady feeling sexy
UPDATE
We spoke last night and prefer me to come to bed naked rather than in lingerie.
However i don’t think we will be together much longer, i dont think love is enough to stay and very torn.
That is a shame, its difficult if you both will not work on it. But I do fully understand life is too short and everyone deserves to be happy. @MasterOfSexToys
Hmm not quite sure what else I could advise to try help
Sad for you. Sorry to hear that.
So sorry to hear that @MasterOfSexToys, i would love nothing more than my wife to put any of her sexy stuff on(of which she has a vast selection including lots of lovehoney items) but alas i know this just isn’t going to happen…
Still no lingerie but our relationship is getting alot better since we working on our intimacy side.
I love my wife dressing up, but unfortunately she just finds it a pain now. It was something she used to love. She loved the wet look fierce mini dress with black stockings, (she said it makes her feel sexy) lingerie is SO sexy on women
@FD1 i know what you mean, years ago Mrs Pootle used to wear some seriously sexy items but alas those are just memories nowadays…
I love wearing it if I am in the mood to dress up and I love my OH wearing it. I feel that with lingerie you have to be in a certain mood to be wearing it, it’s like dress up it’s a playful thing. I also find that different types of lingerie can make you feel a different type of way. Like some make me feel really cute, some make me feel really sensual and some make me feel really confident. But sometimes I just don’t want to wear it and I can understand why some people may not be into it. Although I would encourage couples to try it