Threesomes

So i was just curious to have many people have had a threesome experiance and was it any good?

Many Thanks Jennifer

It was rubbish lol foursome was even worse

I had a threesome with two guys and it was horrible, they were both giggling with each other like little kids, there was no intimacy and the second time was exactly the same. Would love to have one with my boyfriend and another girl but would get jealous of them two touching :)

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Not good so far then :S x

Lady.Gasm.X wrote:

I had a threesome with two guys and it was horrible, they were both giggling with each other like little kids, there was no intimacy and the second time was exactly the same. Would love to have one with my boyfriend and another girl but would get jealous of them two touching :)

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The basic problem for a man is the simple fact that men have only one penis and practising safe sex mean endlessly changing condoms. Plus as LG says intimacy is between two people and two minds anyone else involved takes that away.

I'm yet to hear of a positive encounter from the females perspective...

I have-ffm. With two very good friends, female friend is a swinger anyway and very sensual and we both have a 'thing' for our male friend. She didn't want to be fucked but it was amazing and I'd love to do it again

I have had a ffm threesome, with my partner and another women.

I like women more than men and so this was the better choice.

We all recently tested and hadn't been with anyone else and so we didn't use condoms - me and the other woman had the coil.

It was fun and very sexy from a bi females perspective, I would say that it takes good solid relationships and a lot of understanding from all persons involved. As Lady Gasm pointed out, jealously is a big risk and does sometimes crop up, I have friends who have left someone after having a threesome as they couldn't deal with the jealousy.

My advice is:

  • Safe sex, always
  • Be prepared for jealousy
  • Make sure it isn't just a fad, that everyone really wants to do it
  • It isn't for everyone
  • Don't feel pressured
  • If you tick all the above, then have fun!

No, I just want all the attention on me!!!! Lol

My wife wants to try a threesome, another girl and herself while I watch. She trusts me not to touch the other girl but wants me to get involved with her while she is playing with the other girl. This is for both of us and we think it would be a great turn on

I really want to have a threesome my oh is up for it too so hopefully fingers crossed it will happen soon ;) xx

I had one FFM and it was awful and one of my biggest regrets...

I was very drunk and never intended it to happen.. someone just thought they would invite themselves in!

I would never do it with my hub because he is mine only, but if I was single, I would contemplate doing it with people I actually wanted to do it with.

The foursome was with 3 girls they were constantly jabbering away in their mother tongue ....very off putting lol

The foursome was with 3 girls they were constantly jabbering away in their mother tongue ....very off putting lol

I like the idea of a threesome probably more than what it would be like in reality, I have been saying to my oh about it for some time, just to try it, but she doesn't like the idea at all & would never share herself with anyone, someone else preferably female guiding me & her would be interesting, though as for me I'm probably romanticising the idea, I wouldn't want to lose my oh, just hoping we can try some different things sexually.

Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

I like the idea of a MMF threesome, but I think in reality it wouldn't work at all - unless I really trusted the two men.

I don't think a threesome with my partner would work with either sex, to be honest. I prefer it remaining a fantasy and thoughts in my head, rather than going through with it and tainting it.

I also think jealousy would come into it if I were to try something(/one) with my partner.

I think there are issues for most men being aroused in the presence of another man, I certainly couldnt do it without being self concious

I've had a FFF threesome and a MMFF foursome.

The threesome was just a bit of drunken fun.... but gosh - it was a LOT of fun. Certainly one of my most memorable sexual experiences.

The foursome, well that was a long time ago, we were all still in 6thform, again, alcohol was involved, and no actual sex - but just lots of foreplay. It was good fun too.

Alex and I are both bi, we both like the idea of each other enjoying someone elses body, and I don't think jealousy would be much of an issue for us. My experiences before weren't with Alex, but we'd love to have a threesome if we found the right person. Personally I wouldn't have a preference over MMF or FFM, but would much prefer the 3rd person to be bi, think it would just lend itself to a more relaxed experience.

Lucy.

I've always been interested in a threesome but not yet had one. When I was younger I was only interested in a FFM threesome. I had a couple of girlfriends who were both keen on the idea, it was a frequent fantasy that was openly discussed. Had one of the relationships lasted, I'm absolutely certain we'd have gone for it.

I'm less certain that I'll ever have one now. I'm happily married and although we have discussed it, my OH isn't sufficiently keen to try. She's concerned about the possible jealousy aspect. I don't think it would be an issue given that we have a very strong relationship and jealousy hasn't ever been an issue for us. She doesn't think it's worth the risk and I respect her view on that and wouldn't push anything she's not completely comfortable with.

If it were to happen now, I'd entertain either MMF or FFM, I think my OH would go for either too. I think I now prefer the idea of MMF, not really sure why but it just seems a more interesting proposition. I also wouldn't be averse to a bit of bi play should the opportunity arise in such a situation. Never done anything like that before but the idea has become more appealing with time. I find bi MMF porn very arousing now.

I suspect this will all just remain a fantasy though. Maybe that's not a bad thing, the fantasies are always very pleasant.

I've always been interested in a threesome but not yet had one. When I was younger I was only interested in a FFM threesome. I had a couple of girlfriends who were both keen on the idea, it was a frequent fantasy that was openly discussed. Had one of the relationships lasted, I'm absolutely certain we'd have gone for it.

I'm less certain that I'll ever have one now. I'm happily married and although we have discussed it, my OH isn't sufficiently keen to try. She's concerned about the possible jealousy aspect. I don't think it would be an issue given that we have a very strong relationship and jealousy hasn't ever been an issue for us. She doesn't think it's worth the risk and I respect her view on that and wouldn't push anything she's not completely comfortable with.

If it were to happen now, I'd entertain either MMF or FFM, I think my OH would go for either too. I think I now prefer the idea of MMF, not really sure why but it just seems a more interesting proposition. I also wouldn't be averse to a bit of bi play should the opportunity arise in such a situation. Never done anything like that before but the idea has become more appealing with time. I find bi MMF porn very arousing now.

I suspect this will all just remain a fantasy though. Maybe that's not a bad thing, the fantasies are always very pleasant.

D'oh double post sorry!