Tips for spicing things up.

Me and my OH have been together for 15 years and are really happy. We want to spice things uo a little as the sex has gone a bit flat. We'd be grateful for your tips.

We've talked things through and would try most things as long as it is just the two of us. Any recommendations?

Read through the forum together and I'm sure you will get plenty of ideas.

Everything from dirty weekends away, naughty texts etc. Once you try something new then thats the key I think. We all crave some fun and adventure.

try spicing things up dressing up role play toys oils massages even porn all will help

always be spontaneous, even if you plan something, never tell your OH. spontinaity is the spice of life..

Oh, you may want to have a quick read over the picture rules, nipples are not allowed :)

ZombieCpl wrote:

always be spontaneous, even if you plan something, never tell your OH. spontinaity is the spice of life..

Oh, you may want to have a quick read over the picture rules, nipples are not allowed :)

Even on a painting!? :O I suppose it's setting an all in all boundary but it is art. Why are female nipples so sacred!? xx

books ! I have loads of them

A porn DVD can be good for inspiration or as already said a little dress up and role play is good.

A wish jar... each keep their own jar and the other draws from it... it's fun if nothing else

lubed fingers in orifices !

Bondage tape, it doesn't look serious and can be used as a blindfold too! If that works then you can work up to better hardware!