I'm looking to buy an anal toy for my boyfriend for his birthday. I've read every review and everyt thread on LoveHoney that has to do with prostate massage, massagers, vibrators and bum action... and I still can't make a decision!
Basically I need to ask the guys - when it comes to anal pentration, what's better? Vibes or no vibes?
Some guidance please? He's pretty experienced with anal, so I'm confident about getting him an 'advanced' toy - I just can't figure out what's better, vibration or massage! HALP!
(or should I just give up and give him a Tenga Fliphole?!)
We are beginners in the ass stuff and OH preferred the feel of something buzzing away pleasantly up his bum rather than a thrusting object, which was a bit too much for him. Might change as we get more practised at it. He does love his Tenga!
I use my vibes as dildos very often. We found pointy toys find the p spot if that's what you're looking for but normal shaped vibes still provide a nice buzz.
I use my vibes as dildos very often. We found pointy toys find the p spot if that's what you're looking for but normal shaped vibes still provide a nice buzz.
Yeah, but I want to buy something that's for *him* specifically since he's been so good with using my toys on me. Something a bit special, yknow?
We'll definitely get to using other types of toys, but I want to make a sort of statement with this one - this is a toy just for him that can't be used on me!!
`i was looking at those for Mr HP Shellyboo (naughty/bad/rude) and I think I would have plumped for the Naughty boy due to it having a slimmer shaft/tip as we are beginners and girth isn't something Mr HP likes right now (in fact he doesn't like fat things up his bum).
Well, it would seem he's experienced... I'm not sure how experienced, but either way I'd like to push his boundaries anyhow!!
I had a look at the Bad Boy and the Naughty Boy (I like the more moulded look of them), and though the Bad Boy is longer by 2 inches; it's the same circumference and diameter... but it does LOOK much thicker, doesn't it?!
I'm still a tad confused, but leaning towards the Bad Boy, as it says the Naughty Boy is good for beginners, which he isn't...
i've tried the naughtyboy and I think its fair to say I'm experienced enough in that department. Its the worst toy I've ever bought, the vibrations barely transmit along to the tip despite what he says in the video about "high quality silicone". I've got a nexus excel thats a whole lot better (similar to the progasm) but in all honesty the winner, hands down, in this department is our strapon.
i've tried the naughtyboy and I think its fair to say I'm experienced enough in that department. Its the worst toy I've ever bought, the vibrations barely transmit along to the tip despite what he says in the video about "high quality silicone". I've got a nexus excel thats a whole lot better (similar to the progasm) but in all honesty the winner, hands down, in this department is our strapon.
the winner, hands down, in this department is our strapon.
We're not really there yet though, sxe. I am a total boy-bum novice and I'm nowhere near ready to even think about a strapon yet - as well as that, we're only going out a month!
I'm getting all flustered about it now, I always do this with presents! I'd be gutted if I got him something he didn't like.
I get the impression that the Rude Boy suffers from the same thing as the Rock Chick - either it works for someone fantastically well, or not at all. Seems a bit gamble if it's a gift..
If I had the cash to spare I'd get my BF an Aneros type toy. I'm intrigued by the notion that he could wear it during sex and get a double whammy that way!
But I'm thinking that if the vibes don't work, it will still be a nice toy sans vibes maybe? Whereas if he DOES like the vibes then the Aneros isn't going to cut it.
*makes note to try toys on bf next weekend for research purposes*
But if you want to try vibes, just get a cheap waterproof finger vibe and save the money of the Rube Boy... you could even get that and an Aneros and apply the vibe to the base of the Aneros :-)
I've got a Naughty Boy but have never really got anywhere with it - the progasm looks a bit big as well!
The Aneros toys have a very good reputation - have you looked at those? I love the Aneros peridise - its very basic but feels good.
That was my other choice in the original post, Jake... On balance, I do think they look like the better toy, to be honest - but I guess the Naughty Boy *looks* more impressive or something!! But I guess simpler is better sometimes too.
But if you want to try vibes, just get a cheap waterproof finger vibe and save the money of the Rube Boy... you could even get that and an Aneros and apply the vibe to the base of the Aneros :-)
It's a birthday present though, Darth, and I already have loads of vibes that we both play with... the point is I want to buy him something that's JUST for him.