Pegging, why do you like it? From all perspectives

What turns you on about pegging and why do you like it?

I love the fact O/H is in control knowing that enough

Massive turn on that the oh is in control and takes the lead. Especially when she actually plans it and tells me to get myself ready. But also it’s a very intense feeling and super intense orgasm.

My OH wanted to try it... I was sceptical because I was like well where’s my pleasure... greedy slut! Haha. But I LOVE IT! I am so wet after doing it and he is eager to fulfil me after when he feels how turned on I was from it. I love to hear him moan and take full control of him.

I fantasies about being pegged by my partner all the time but unfortunately this is currently a big no go at the minute as she views it as a homosexual act. I'm hoping one day she will realise that sexuality is a lot more complex and that enjoy anal stimulation is not just reversed for gay men.

As for what turns me on so much about it, it is probably the submissive side of it and how she can give me what I often give her, I guess put simply the idea of role reversal turns me on.

Could be good to show her some forums about it from a female perspective. Maybe explaining about how you’d love to try a prostate orgasm? Seeing a man react to a prostate orgasm intrigues a woman. It may open her mind a bit more. It’s hard to break some woman on this topic. But it’s all about sparking their interest somehow. Good luck.

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My last response is from JustSome Fun... won’t let me reply to it.

Yes, I plan on doing this definitely! I feel like when the topic was brought up it was a shock and she shut it down very quickly, it's probably due to her not understanding and feeling uncomfortable.

Fingers crossed she comes round to it one day!

Part of the attraction of pegging for me is the relinquishing of control to my wife and the submissive feelings associated with that but I also very much enjoy the physical sensation of being penetrated. I realise that the sensations are not the same but I really wanted to get some idea of how a woman feels during penetrative sex and being pegged is the closest experience I can get to this.

For me the physical sensation of being pegged is so intense that I often ask my wife to stop stimulating me in any other way so that I can concentrate on the feeling of the dildo moving inside me. I do not always come but these sensations are far more important to me than having an orgasm. That can come later.

We have moved on to using a Lovehoney Double Wow Strapless 'Strap-On' so that my wife gets clitoral and vaginal stimulation too.

Defo the exchange of role and control

Yeah that's kind of how my girlfriend is. Really turns me on when she gets that wet. We've also started filming a little bit. Very hot to see.

Lady nymph 000 I see your I love Daddy in your photo. Did you respond in my Daddy topic? I was asking about that because I saw Daddy Porn was taking off and product sales online. Most people didn't get the fascination like myself but I was curious about it from a womans perspective. Take a look if you would at my question on that topic

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For my husband, it is all about the physical sensation. The dildo driving into him, my body contacting his as I move, my boobs brushing his back as I thrust. All that feels so good.

For me, it's about the noises he makes, the moves his body makes, the physical contact. I also love training his ass to take larger toys - I feel it as somewhat of a challenge. Oh, and I cum really hard and really often when thrusting into him with one particular dildo, so that's the icing on the cake.

That's pretty much what my OH says. For me it adds another dimension and I love what she does to me. For me it's not about role reversal as I don't see us a having roles. Its not about control either as we both have control. But it definitely is fun

I'm only new to anal, been using plugs for a couple years now, and only found the glass one recently that I can leave in etc.

I've brought this topic up a few times with her and she said she's keen then changes her mind, and one day when a strap on was on Deal of the day I bought it and told her...she's wore it a few times herself and said she feels comfortable to try it some time...but we are quite awkward sometimes, so asking might be a drunken session sometime lol. Also we both live with our parents, so it's hard to get time to enjoy each other the now but I'm kind of keen to try it soon

Multiple reasons for me -

Firstly I simply enjoy anal stimulation, whether its a butt plug or a dildo, both are enjoyable albeit in different ways and secondly, it allows us to connect to each other in a way that otherwise we couldn't.

For pegging, the physical sensation of being penetrated is enhanced by the addtional physical side of sex, if we are in doggy for example, her hips hitting my ass from behind and that adds to the internal stimulation from the dildo. If in missionary, the ability to kiss and interact with her whilst she is penetrating me also adds another dimension to it. I can get to play with her boobs with hands or mouth / tounge which is somethiing I love to do. The first time we tried it missionary style, I commented afterwards that I had never felt so close or more connected to her emotionally (well, child birth excluded).

Its not something we do often, only on those occasions where we know there is absolutely no risk of being interrupted (i.e. all 3 teenagers are out of the house).

We also have a double ended dildo that we can both enjoy at the same time, get ourselves into an almost scissoring position, its a bit awkward and not intimate touch, but duing one session, its the only time I have jerked off infront of her whilst she also brought herself to orgasm using a wand, so that added its own level of intimacy I guess.

I love the power play and he love the anal stimulation so we both enjoy a good pegging.

My OH recently filmed herself fucking me on all fours. Her nails are painted red and looked so good holding on to my arse as she fucked it. I like the way she teases and caresses my body before and during. She also eats my arse which I love. I think the focus being elsewhere than my cock is a real turn on. She plays with my whole body and that gets me so hot. It can be easy to make a guy cum but to make a guy cum really hard can take more. My OH definitely makes me cum hard!

Initially the pure taboo and role reversal was what started it for us . Our first strap on was a leather harness with fairly advanced shape and size . Setting up the straps and figuring out my position and hers kind of distracted from the first time . I think we both really got off on swapping control . After figuring out what size shape , I enjoyed it much more . I might note that after sugar waxing to be totally hair free all under it went to the next level . Now that we have done it for some time , she was amazed how long and large I could take without discomfort .