Welcome. Of course it isnt inappropriate, thats what the forums are for xx
I would suggest starting with a decent bullet vibrator. Bullets are ideal for pin point stimulation and the better quality ones also pack a decent punch on their higher speeds.
I would also recommend at some point, purchasing a larger toy that offers clitoral stimulation because you will start to notice a difference in the "feel" of the vibrations. Gnerally smaller bullet toys are more buzzy, faster, pin point,surface level vibrators, whereas larger toys can often offer more rumbling vibrations that are more diffuse. These vibrations travel deeper into your tissue. Rabbit vibrators (The ears) are pin point like bullet vibes but also seem to travel a bit deeper.
See it is very difficult to know what to recommend because not only do all toys feel slightly different, or very different, but people have different tastes too.
Anyway my advice would be rather than recommend some products I personally like, I would say remember the above advice about different sensations, try to avoid anything too cheap (Nothing more off putting to a new person than a bad vibrator) and dont give up if the first toy you try isnt for you. trust me, I went through a few before I narrowed down my preferences and I am sure a lot of other girls did too. Narrow down your search and read reviews on the products you like to form an opinion. Start simple.
Oh dear I think I may have made your head spin even more. I am sorry if so xx Good luck on your search and remember to come back and tell us how it went. nothing better than a happy ending x