# Trying to recover from a low libido **URL:** \ **Category:** Introduce Yourself\ **Created:** [March 5, 2022, 12:57am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526 "2022-03-05T00:57:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Babeysad](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/82dd89/32.png) [@Babeysad](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Babeysad)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 12:57am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/1 "2022-03-05T00:57:56Z")
Hi! I’m a disabled girl so being at home is sorta most I can do right now during recovery of things, I’m trying to get my libido back up again but it’s sort of hard to when u have been so out of touch for so long, wanted to see if I could become a tester ---
**Author:** ![PKH](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/pkh/32/38599_2.png) [@PKH](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/PKH)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 5:19am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/2 "2022-03-05T05:19:29Z")
Welcome to the forum 👋🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Onlyones](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/onlyones/32/274_2.png) [@Onlyones](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Onlyones)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 6:37am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/3 "2022-03-05T06:37:52Z")
Hi @Babeysad Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![WillC](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/willc/32/43869_2.png) [@WillC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/WillC)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 7:05am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/4 "2022-03-05T07:05:35Z")
Welcome to the forum, the best way to become a tester is to review some purchases and volunteer when any items you would like to test are put up on the forum. ---
**Author:** ![Peitho](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/peitho/32/651_2.png) [@Peitho](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Peitho)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 7:11am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/5 "2022-03-05T07:11:23Z")
Hi @Babeysad 👋 Welcome to the forum! If you want to become a tester have a thorough read through [The Great Big Review and Testing Guide](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/the-great-big-review-and-testing-guide/257636). It has all the information you need to become a tester, but as @WillC says, the main thing is to start reviewing products you’ve already purchased with good quality reviews and you’ll be well on your way. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![Dirty-Wife](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/dirty-wife/32/18670_2.png) [@Dirty-Wife](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Dirty-Wife)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 7:21am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/6 "2022-03-05T07:21:41Z")
Hi 👋 @Babeysad welcome to the forum 😊 ---
**Author:** ![Daisy1982](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/daisy1982/32/18530_2.png) [@Daisy1982](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Daisy1982)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 7:22am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/7 "2022-03-05T07:22:25Z")
Hey @Babeysad and welcome 🤗 to the forum ---
**Author:** ![Ian\_Chimp](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/ian_chimp/32/18489_2.png) [@Ian\_Chimp](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Ian_Chimp)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 7:26am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/8 "2022-03-05T07:26:11Z")
Hello and welcome @Babeysad 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Craig1234](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/craig1234/32/9819_2.png) [@Craig1234](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Craig1234)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 8:06am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/9 "2022-03-05T08:06:19Z")
Hellooooooo ---
**Author:** ![Baby\_Jane](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/baby_jane/32/12217_2.png) [@Baby\_Jane](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Baby_Jane)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 8:24am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/10 "2022-03-05T08:24:06Z")
Hi there 👋 ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Eyed\_Girl](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/green_eyed_girl/32/4468_2.png) [@Green\_Eyed\_Girl](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Green_Eyed_Girl)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 8:24am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/11 "2022-03-05T08:24:19Z")
Hi, welcome to the forum 👋 Theres quite a few of us on here dealing with low libido so your not alone. Theres a nice gang of us on here too having fun in-spite of the challenges of various medical conditions. so its a good place to ask for advice, as people are very friendly on here. Thought id throw a couple of links in that might be helpful too. > [@Disability fun](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/disability-fun/262718): > > Not been about on the LH Forums since pre ‘C’ word as couldn’t deal with glitches any more, must say the new forum world appears refreshing - top work guys! I have a progressive neurological condition that affects my legs, and thought I would start a little chat to see if others with impairments of any kind wanted to share their thoughts or stories? So for me, me legs and balance are predominantly affected, and I used to have a lot of insecurities around this stuff. I have spent a lot of time… > [@Disability friendly purchases](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/disability-friendly-purchases/271224): > > Share your favourite disability friendly items here star2 Disabilities can sometimes lead to extra considerations when buying sexy items, or sometimes necessitate an extra product to lend a hand with physical limitations. Here’s a thread so that we can share and shout about those products we find are helpful in any way for disabilities or physical limitations and support. Or any products we expected to be helpful that didn’t quite make the mark! So if you have a product you’ve found particu… ---
**Author:** ![steve19](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/e79b87/32.png) [@steve19](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/steve19)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 8:26am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/12 "2022-03-05T08:26:44Z")
Hi and welcome, its always good to have new members.Read the info regarding testing, there are some great examples and advice about reviewing items ---
**Author:** ![Latex73](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a587f6/32.png) [@Latex73](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Latex73)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 9:42am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/13 "2022-03-05T09:42:37Z")
Greetings, welcome to the forum 😊🙃😊 ---
**Author:** ![Funguy70](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/funguy70/32/221_2.png) [@Funguy70](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Funguy70)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 10:54am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/14 "2022-03-05T10:54:07Z")
Hello and welcome 😃 @Babeysad ---
**Author:** ![Saffron18](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/saffron18/32/13661_2.png) [@Saffron18](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Saffron18)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 11:13am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/15 "2022-03-05T11:13:30Z")
Hi and welcome @Babeysad I’m at home a lot too (covid shielding reasons), I’d suggest ‘warming up’ your mind as well as trying toys, for example reading erotica and taking any opportunity to fantasise about sex during the day. I had a libido surge back in July which I suspect is peri-menopause related and I’ve really tried to maintain my newly found libido by simply taking time to think about sex more. I’ve found that prioritising it has helped and being on this forum. I appreciate it’s not always that simple and I don’t know your circumstances, just thought I’d share my thoughts as it might help 👍 ---
**Author:** ![Green\_Eyed\_Girl](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/green_eyed_girl/32/4468_2.png) [@Green\_Eyed\_Girl](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Green_Eyed_Girl)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 11:39am UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/16 "2022-03-05T11:39:17Z")
Nice tip @Saffron18 👍 @Babeysad theres a rather long list i posted in the [book club thread](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/the-book-club/271422/17) a while ago if you want a quick way to find some good stuff and also the [Literotica thread](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/list-your-top-literotica-authors/263740) that has lost of recommendations too ---
**Author:** ![SexySmoggy](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/sexysmoggy/32/15394_2.png) [@SexySmoggy](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/SexySmoggy)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 12:29pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/17 "2022-03-05T12:29:23Z")
Hi and welcome @Babeysad ---
**Author:** ![Gazza\_64](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/gazza_64/32/2067_2.png) [@Gazza\_64](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Gazza_64)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 1:48pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/18 "2022-03-05T13:48:26Z")
Hey there @Babeysad welcome to the forum jump in and enjoy the forum 😘 ---
**Author:** ![AJSTAR](https://dub1.discourse-cdn.com/lovehoney/user_avatar/lovehoneyforum.com/ajstar/32/2823_2.png) [@AJSTAR](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/AJSTAR)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 2:55pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/20 "2022-03-05T14:55:05Z")
Hey welcome to the forum 😃 lovely to hear your now in a position to be able to try gaining some sexual happiness again, might take time but hopefully you’ll find it comes back rather quickly ---
**Author:** ![Mr\_Kink1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/cab0a1/32.png) [@Mr\_Kink1](https://lovehoneyforum.com/u/Mr_Kink1)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2022, 3:40pm UTC](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526/21 "2022-03-05T15:40:59Z")
Hi @Babeysad, welcome to the forum! The links I was going to send have already been share. I have a physical impairment myself (neurological), and also in recovery from addiction - both of which can have a big impact on me and my sex life. For me the biggest problem I have is if I obsess about things, it just makes things a hulluva lot worse! So I guess the best advice I can give would be to relax, be comfortable and kind with yourself, and you’ll be amazed at the difference. Granted, so much easier said than done - especially with how my head works, but when I do the simple things it does make me feel so much better! There’s loads of fun posts on here, and can get quite absorbed in it all, but I find it’s an amazing group of people to talk with, ask advice or ideas from, or just get stuff of my chest! Hope you enjoy your journey on here, keep posting, get involved and write some good reviews, and hopefully you’ll be selected for test/review of products. [Next page](https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/trying-to-recover-from-a-low-libido/281526.md?page=2)