B-vibes plugs are excellent and have remotes. Cant recommend them enough to be honest. There is a review of the rimming one Here that i did get around to writing, but the less fancy ones are also really good (i also have This one)
Lovehoney do not stock the entire range sadly, so there are other sizes of things.
I havent had one time out on me before and i tend to put plugs in before a session to switch on half way through due to all the handwashing being a turn off
Theres quite a few anal toys that use an app if that appeals