i apologise for my spelling in advance, im dyslexic
I really dont know where else to ask about these things but its a topic thats always bothered me.
the last time i looked at my lady parts was when i was 15 , i am 29 now.
i know my body and i notice change. i hate my vagina with a passion. i even cut myself down there once because it was so uncomfterble.
a few years back i went to the hospital and went to see a doctor about it.
now i have had 9 operations in the past, major ones.
so i was not here to mess around.
every time i went to the bathroom or even masterbated i would cry. i just felt so discusting.
my mother was upset hearing me crying every time i used the bathroom.
so going to the doctors, he was extremly rude to me.
saw me as , how do i put it.
mother wanted to bring me in because shes unhappy about my lady region. appariently and i have seen this myself, some mothers will take there child as young as 13 or 15 to a doctor that looks at your downstairs department, i forget the name.
anyway he saw me as one of those people.
he sayed, "well you seem normal down there but perhaps slighly a little over but nothing to worry about. now are you serious about this or not?"
i cant descrive the hole ordeal because it was horrible for me.
i went ahead with it anyway and had a little cut off.my doctors attitude changed when he saw my medical records and noticed i was not messing around.
well anyway i had it done and it was painful yes.
it haps improved quite a bit down there but its still big.
they wouldent cut it all off because i meen this is the nhs, you want a porn vagina then you gotta pay for it i guess.
the hole experiance was horrible and i even got an infection.
what upsets me too is the fact that i have never had a man in my life and this is the lenth i go to make myself feel more human again.
would i go under the knife again, yes i would actuly. and not only that but i struggle with the bowl department aswell so i also have some other unwanted little skin tags from my bum. i feel so unwanted and discusting its not even funny.
whenever i masterbad i cry every time afterwards, i know its stupid but this is just how i feel inside. i will never accept whats down there and no man would ever want me anyway.
i want to feel normal. i have got other problems enough as it is as im actuly partly disabled and get tired quickly from things.
i dont know i just dont know anymore.