AshANDclare wrote:
Hi guys.
Ours together is the Mrs dressing up in a short dress a LBD.
No knickers on and basicly we goto a bar and show off and catch eyes of other guys.Both a big turn on for us.
We're due to do it on our next date night in october.. Can't wait!
Be careful doing this. If other people aren't consenting to seeing then you might offend/upset someone and get yourselves into trouble!
She don't sit there with her legs wide open lol.. We're experts ;-)NatandTom wrote:
AshANDclare wrote:
Hi guys.
Ours together is the Mrs dressing up in a short dress a LBD.
No knickers on and basicly we goto a bar and show off and catch eyes of other guys.Both a big turn on for us.
We're due to do it on our next date night in october.. Can't wait!
Be careful doing this. If other people aren't consenting to seeing then you might offend/upset someone and get yourselves into trouble!
I have to agree with Nat. I struggle with nudity, I have done for many many years. I would feel very uncomfortable and end up leaving the bar which is very unfair as it's not something I had consented to. I'm not big on confrontation but other people can be.
I'm sure others would also feel uncomfortable if their OHs were caught looking, could cause problems in a delicate relationship.
Sorry I'm such a spoil sport, just be careful.
I mirror what others have said (nice as a fantasy though) could she not wear a slightly longer dress or a tiny pair of knickers just to cover her dignity a bit. It only takes a small flash to upset others and believe me when wearing anything really short it's almost impossible not to flash as ladylike as she may be.
Telepathy.
It has come as a bit of a suprise to me, but the smell of leather is a real turn on for me. I don't know why, but it's a real thrill.
My weirdest turn on is watching my wife being used by her friends (ladies and guys ) and not being able to touch her and being humiliated by them as my wife watches me being dressed in ladies clothes and obeying their every command. My wife laughs at me whilst they use her body and tells me that my penis is too small to be of any use and I need to masturbate in front of her friends in the underwear until I cum. So being humiliated is my turn on.
I am not judging but this sounds like my worst nightmare. I am really curious as to the psychological motivations of this fetish.
Mine are fairly vanilla to be honest -
I love horsey teeth on a girl haha
As a young man my fetish was for older women to slowly and intimately teach me about sex through pleasuring her. I was lucky enough to make that a reality.
True fetishes that others would recognise?
High heels (stiletto)
coquettishness
Lip bites
A really loud and dirty laugh gets me
Actually my OH would say my fetish is giving head; I cannot come usually unless I have given my partner oral sex.
I don't kmow if its been mentioned yet but many ladies tend to melt when they see a guy in uniform especially if he is good looking as well .
Similarly I like ladies in uniform, as well especially if they are strict and commanding as well.
SFTM wrote:
True fetishes that others would recognise?
coquettishness
Sorry but what is this? Never heard of it before.
Fun Louise wrote:
SFTM wrote:
True fetishes that others would recognise?
coquettishness
Sorry but what is this? Never heard of it before.
Its a flirtatious but will mannered woman.
Definitely uniforms all the way for me ! I go weak at the knees at the sight of firemen etc :)
Officer and gentleman! Yummy!!
Bunny ears and tail. No idea why.
I try to never judge people.
I think that is great that we are all different and like different things, but THIS fetish has me scratching my head and muttering why... why
looners: getting off on popping balloons or watching others pop them
usually by sitting on them
I would never make fun of anyone for their fetishes, but, this one I don't think I will EVER understand.
amber
amber_angel wrote:
I try to never judge people.
I think that is great that we are all different and like different things, but THIS fetish has me scratching my head and muttering why... why
looners: getting off on popping balloons or watching others pop them
usually by sitting on them
I would never make fun of anyone for their fetishes, but, this one I don't think I will EVER understand.
amber
Have you ever read Nancy Friday's work? She devotes a lot of time to breaking down fantasies into their base components and origins.
It is likely that these individuals were rewarded with some love and affection from a parent figure during celebrations that contained balloons. Or possibly they popped them are we disciplined / shamed for being impertinent leading to feelings of frustration.
Almost every fetish has it's roots in some logical event.
Shoes fetish? As a child it is likely (not guarateed) that your mother wore shoes around the house and as a baby you would crawl to your parent and tug on their ankle/foot and be picked up and given affection. In life this manifested itself as a sexual shoe fetish. Satisfaction/love was the direct result of touching the shoe and a female wearing the shoe.
Women and gay guys have similar feelings to the smells that their father would come home with if a mechanic etc. The smell of swarferga or oil would illicit feelings of joy (Daddy's home!).
I find uniforms quite a turn off. Working in the health service I struggle to take any 'naughty nurse' outfit sexy after spending most of time around nurses and having some female relatives who also work in the profession.
For me it's feet, throw in some stockings and I'm a happy guy 😀
After spending way too much time on a swinging site recently some saucy chats lead to saucy photos and getting blokes worked up whilst they're at work is fab. Something about seeing a boner bulge under a suit makes me weak and the knees! x
Im so with you a Bonner under clothes has stayed with me from my teen days lol sitting on your boy friends lap feeling his dick uncontrollable and hard think its that feeling of being total desired i love it. Also for me apparently reading about others fetishes gets me really horny and gagging for it. LolMondaySixteenth wrote:
After spending way too much time on a swinging site recently some saucy chats lead to saucy photos and getting blokes worked up whilst they're at work is fab. Something about seeing a boner bulge under a suit makes me weak and the knees! x