Could anyone suggest a wand (or something else - see last paragraph!) that might be suitable for someone with a very sensitive clitoris?
I have a wand but it is just too powerful, my OH tried to use it on me the other day and it felt great through his hand (hand cupping me and wand on the back of his hand) but he found it uncomfortable on his hand since it was too powerful and the material too hard. We switched to a different vibrator and I had my first ever “hands free” orgasm. I had to readjust his position quite a few times but it was amazing that he made me come and I’d like to do it again (lots!).
Basically, I need something that has low, rumbly vibrations that can be turned down to lower power but I’d like something that applies the vibrations over a wide area, partly due to sensitivity and partly because it means that my OH can use it on me without me having to constantly adjust his position and there is a much lower chance of him mistakenly directly touching my clit (which due to a nerve condition is very painful!). Ultimately I’d like him to be able to tie me up, blindfold me and use a vibrator on me but I need to be able to trust that he won’t accidentally touch my clit and make me scream in pain rather than pleasure!! It might be that a wand isn’t really the best option but it’s the only thing I can think off.
Any suggestions of wand or other options would be lovely x