Hi all....this is my first thread....so bear with me.
At times........ I find that it takes me quite a while to reach climax.....which can can be knackering. My OH find it quite easy to cum a few times when we are having sex.....but it can sometimes mean that I finish myself off, with help from her (a bit of nipple and nut play)
Can anyone suggest anything that...well...does the opposite of delay cream......perhaps something that makes me more sensitive?
Might sound scary but have you tried a pussy pump, it makes everything bigger, more sensitive and tighter for you, how about a butt plug for either/both of you whilst having sex? Blindfold?
If I am playing on my own, it can sometimes take a while, but is normally ok..... but I think it might also be a bit of a mental issue at times too. I have ordered a vibrating cock ring and a prostate massager to have a go with......and we will see how we get on!