Want to cum quicker....any suggestions?


Hi all....this is my first thread....so bear with me.

At times........ I find that it takes me quite a while to reach climax.....which can can be knackering. My OH find it quite easy to cum a few times when we are having sex.....but it can sometimes mean that I finish myself off, with help from her (a bit of nipple and nut play)

Can anyone suggest anything that...well...does the opposite of delay cream......perhaps something that makes me more sensitive?

Any comments greatly appreciated.

Thanks

There is a sad lack of products designed to make guys more sensitive. Lovehoney do stock this one:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33038

You could also try the Durex embrace set, it comes with a lube for each of you to heighten sensation for both:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28910

Do you use condoms at all? My partner finds cooling and ribbed condoms both give him pleasure and make him cum faster.

Do you cum quickly if you play on your own?

Could it be a bit of a mental barrier?

Might sound scary but have you tried a pussy pump, it makes everything bigger, more sensitive and tighter for you, how about a butt plug for either/both of you whilst having sex? Blindfold?

Lovebirds_x wrote:

There is a sad lack of products designed to make guys more sensitive. Lovehoney do stock this one:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33038

You could also try the Durex embrace set, it comes with a lube for each of you to heighten sensation for both:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28910

Do you use condoms at all? My partner finds cooling and ribbed condoms both give him pleasure and make him cum faster.

Many thanks, I think that we will give the gell a go. We dont use condoms, but would be happy to give it a go.

Quiet ones are worse! wrote:

Do you cum quickly if you play on your own?

Could it be a bit of a mental barrier?

Might sound scary but have you tried a pussy pump, it makes everything bigger, more sensitive and tighter for you, how about a butt plug for either/both of you whilst having sex? Blindfold?

If I am playing on my own, it can sometimes take a while, but is normally ok..... but I think it might also be a bit of a mental issue at times too. I have ordered a vibrating cock ring and a prostate massager to have a go with......and we will see how we get on!

Thanks