I have quite a bunch of toys for myself: Leather restraints; anal toys like dildos and plugs; a strap-on harness; bit trainer gag. I do not have any toys that are any direct fun for my girlfriend.
So I thought it would be nice to have something for her, perhaps something vibrating that gives her pleasure. I don't want to buy a dildo or dildo-vibrator because that seems like a replacement for sex, than something which can be added to make roleplay or sex more fun and diverse.
The thing which came to my mind is a magic wand. It would also be a nice massage toy (she loves being massaged), does not look like a phallus, and can be used together to make sex even more intense.
I think I had asked her a long time ago if she was interested in getting a magic wand, but I think there was not much interest. She said that she was pretty satisfied the way we have sex. So I don't have the feeling that she is really missing something, however I feel a bit selfish for having so many toys for myself but none for her.
What do you think? Should I just get some magic wand and introduce that in the context of a massage? Perhaps she actually likes the deep vibration on the neck and back, and then she might want to try it elsewhere?
I know that she is very sensitive on the clitoris, so a wand is probably something she is going to enjoy way more than a dildo-vibrator. I am just not sure whether she would somehow see it negatively that I get some toy for her this time.
What are the things that I should look at when buying a wand? I think having a plug-in version is nice because the batteries on our vibrating bullet for the strap-on died rather quickly. Then having a lot of power settings are probably nice to start slow. Is there something else?