So my fiance plays Warhammer and has since he was younger. it's like a table top game where you build your own characters and paint them to make an army (just for anyone who doesn't know...).
I've tried it, its OK, but it isn't something i'm mad about. But he is!
i totally respect that this is his hobby and all, but i can't help but find myself feeling second best. i paint, but i at least don't just ignore my OH!
there have been a few days where he has gone to play with other people, and said he would be in for around two or three, and hasn't left until five or sometimes, even seven! SEVEN! or when we plan to go out and end up cancelling for Warhammer, or when he doesn't answer his phone for nine hours, or when you're trying to have a day in watching films an chilling out spending time together (because we never ever have time to ourselves. I thought that was meant to come AFTER marriage and children??) and he is on his phone looking through forums and what nots for YEP! you got it! Warhammer.
i've tried bringing this up with him and he just saus "well its my hobby". YES GOD DAMMIT! i know it's his hobby! we all have hobbies, but it's constant, all day every day, and all i want is one bloody day away from it!
I genuinely feel like it's straining our relationship. We used to be all over each other, and now i just feel blown off and deflated. I don't even know what to talk to him about any more. it's gotten to the point where i've been thinking about having a break because of it. it's gone too far!
so I'm wondering.. has anyone got any tips or advice? has anyone else had this problem and how did you deal with it? and does your OH have a hobby you can't stand?