It really depends. Sometimes only a few minutes. And sometimes up to an hour maybe more. Lots of factors are involved
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@AJSTAR Oh dude, i know that problem only too well. Definitely have the same issue where if i dont use it i loose it libido wise.
I find smut really helps actually. Good way to keep things turning over if your struggling for enough solo time.
I find jiggle balls are good too, so maybe wearing a plug would work for you.
Either way, i agree, med side effects really suck.
On a bad day it can take over an hour/just not happening at all for me
On a good day, with the right vibe, it can be as little as 15-20 mins. But its always best if warm up properly with decent foreplay, which takes longer
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Yes it’s a really weird sensation and for me I feel unfulfilled if I don’t climax during a solo session especially as I’ve never been able to reach that point while with another person during sex.
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Yup I remember the days before I was on meds and I could climax and get turned on really quickly and still be horny afterwards
But now it always takes over and hour at least to climax or get going and even when watching porn I dip and dive with feeling turned on so rely on toys to help me feel more aroused 
But if I didn’t make an effort then I’d not have any urge or need to have sex or play or do anything sexual really…
Kinda makes me feel like a dog who’s had its balls off lol 
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It really depends on a multitude of factors I think.
How much time do I have? Am I using Sex Toys? Do I want to just quickly get myself off because I need to scratch that horny itch in my brain, or am I looking to enjoy myself a bit more.
It could be 2 minutes or half an hour. 
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You would think being retired I could take all day for watching porn and generally being my horny elderly self , wrong . With wife disabled and 19 y/o grandson living with us I have very limited opportunity . If I had the time and privacy I would take hours , but under time constraints I rarely watch over 15 minutes . So no porn that does not spark joy . I may sample many clips until I find one that really fires up my inner ( kind of ) sexual animal . If I get lucky I can cum in less than five minutes . I also can cum amazingly quick watching myself in home made videos . Note , I use my imagination in conjunction with all videos . Using my own and combining with a porn clip where I am servicing or being serviced can get me to cum pretty fast .
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My boyfriend says it feels a bit weird too compared with before but he actually really likes being able to wank for as long as he wants without cumming. He says it feels really good to do it still and he doesn’t feel frustrated or still aroused with not climaxing.
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I did kinda enjoy that side at times but of recent it feels more frustrating than it is enjoyable, might be cause I’m not stimulating myself enough and often that my sex drive has gone into hibernation lol
I can do it in less than 2mins or take 2+ hours really depends what I’m in the mood for
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I’ve usually been thinking about it for a while and getting myself mentally fucked so by the time it comes to getting the toys out my first orgasm is within minutes! The next one follows quite quickly and then again and then again until my legs are aching from the tension. Then I’ll have one more chilled one. Probably doesn’t last more than 10-15mins 
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