Watching porn together

Me and the wife were watching porn together the other night and I quite enjoyed watching it with her instead of on my own and I think she must of enjoyed it a little bit because we ended up have sex while it was on in the back ground she is quite shy when it comes to sex ie she don’t like toys ect she likes what I would call vanilla sex life so hoping it will open her up to new things but question is what would you say was watching to much together as I always tend to lead things and I don’t want her to think it must be the porn that’s doing it for him not me

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Depends how many times you have sex in a week as if multiple then perhaps you could choose one of them days to put porn on then the others you keep to normal or something

Personally I would talk to her about it. Sit down together when you have some time alone and ask her if she enjoyed it and if she’d like to watch it with you again. If she did enjoy it, you could ask her what she enjoyed about it, maybe let her pick something to watch with you next time. I would suggest you explain why you want to watch porn with her so that she knows that you find her attractive and aren’t watching porn to get yourself turned on. You don’t have to say that you want her to broaden her horizons, maybe just say that you want to explore new things together or, if she knows that you watch porn on your own, you could explain that you’d rather she was there with you.

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Hi have you tried unexpected groping? Like when she’s not taking notice of what your upto. Try going for the nipples find out witch is her most sensitive and give her a nipple gazzom and see how far you can take it. Dirty films ok but some women may think you want them to be like the movie stars & there may be things she is uncomfortable doing but not want to tell you about just now. It may be that she has had what I call bad sex in the past and not want to talk about it or can’t talk about it due to fear. So take it slow and steady only use porn if you really both want think of you special woman like a flower you want to blossom. Give her the space to blossom and bloom. And remember touching feeling gently gets you both to where you want to be.

Perhaps ask her if there were any particular scene(s) that excited her, something she might be interested in trying?

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I think the best thing would be for you to sit down and talk to her about it and see how she feels about watching it again with you .
My husband and I once watched it together and although it did get me aroused and it did lead to us having sex it was not something that I wanted to do again but I did try it for my husband. We talked about it and I let him know that it was not something that I wanted to do again and that is how it has stayed .
It’s always best to talk about it instead of not knowing what each other likes .

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If you don’t think talking face to face will work then try emailing her.

You say she is very vanilla so talking about likes/dislikes might be difficult for her. I find it easier to email/text/WhatsApp my husband about some things if I’m not sure how he’ll take my suggestion.

I love watching porn but it’s something I prefer to do on my own. When my husband is home I’d rather just have sex with him then watch other people have sex first!!

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