Yes i suppose you are right it is just that i know of some couples that have delved into these types of things and have not ended well not just for them but their families. Its the children i feel sorry for. I will try and bite my tongue in future.
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Oh, I agree absolutely that on occasions it can go horribly wrong.
My best guess is thatās most likely when one partner is not entirely honest with the other. Whether that be due to insecurities, jealousy, trying to fix a broken relationship or when they are pressured into agreeing to it when they donāt actually want toā¦
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Totally agree its normally exactly any one of those reasons.
No. I donāt like to share.
Absolutely not for me. If a partner suggested it then I would not only decline but I would probably question the future of the relationship full stop, to me thatās a pretty big incompatibility.
I totally get that some people are not only okay with it but it actively strengthens them, I am just not one of those people. I cannot share.
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I think whether itās worth it as some have mentioned is up to individual couples. Itās also dependent on peopleās experiences and demands of what a relationship is.
At 19 I dated and eventually was engaged to a man who introduced me to swinging. For us it moved quickly into a close group of people and couples and then into mostly him getting off to watching me hook up with guys. I can tell you it was intoxicating being the center of attention, not only for me but for his experience also. Geographic differences ended us.
I guess what Iām getting at is everyoneās experiences make things different person by person and couple by couple. We were deeply in love, it was my first true and meaningful relationship, and it just happened to be of the lifestyle choice it was. I told my husband on our 2nd date what Iād been involved in for years as everyone Iād dated since 19 had come from that lifestyle circle. Weāre getting close to 20 years total together and we have better sex and stability than at any other point. Everyone is different.
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OK, I was taught to love sucking cock. And I learned my lessons well because I love to suck cock and have sucked well over 200 cocks while my husband watched. He is very proud of how well I can throat larger than average cocks.
I get them hard as rocks so they can fuck me and give me dozens of orgasms. My husband says I am a much nicer person when getting regularly fucked. Variety is what keeps it interesting.
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Mrs S here so other perspective. Iāve given many blowjobs to other men, some have been with hubby there, some without, some were recorded and sent to him and some he didnāt know about entirely. He loves me cuckholding him and i prefer other peopleās cocks.
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Iād love to experience something like this but I think Iād be jealous
I guess if it were involving me being in lingerie and maybe I was playing sissy Iād also help with the bj and we could all end up cum swapping that idea definitely turns me on x
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My husband says he is jealous that he has watched me fuck 37 men in a night and have over 100 orgasms. He has never fucked more than 7-8 women and cum the same 24 hours. He loves the sound of me cumming.
I think all people prefer variety Iām sexual partners.
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No there are some people that prefer to be with only one sexual partner, which is enough for me anyway.
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@goddess_germanika Impressive numbers but not something i would be proud of myself
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OH and I have discussed this many timesā¦ As interesting and exciting as it sounds, the two of us are very possessive of each other and we would never risk what we have for a potential sexual excursion. It will always stay as a fantasy and will never become a reality!
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Adding the opposite situation. I have recently had the pleasure of watching my wife go down on another women and wife watching me get a bj from another women. Turn on for both of us.
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Why? Sexual women scare you?
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No, but stds do and i think my husband would say that i am a very sexual woman but i save it all for him and he is very glad of that. I find a woman can be sexual without having to prove she is by having sex with a lot of men at once.
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There are many ways to be sexual.
One shouldnāt assume their own way is the only valid way.
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Yes absolutely
I would prefer she was taking 2 but watching her would be amazing as she turns me on so much
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Not something my hubby would want me to do. He is very possessive and would get extremely jealous. He says he loves me and says i am sexy, my body is beautiful but he is not prepared to share that with anyone else. I love the way he makes me feel and that he does not treat me like an object he would not want me to do that for his own self gratification.
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Always be a fantasy for me
She would have to be 100% committed
But I find her so sexy and would love too see other men get turned on by her the same way I do
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Careful what you wish for. Not sure if under same topic but i knew of,
someone who wanted this with his wife. After a lot of persuasion she agreed and gave his friend a blow job. It did not end well she ended up going of with the friend and they now live in spain with two kids. All his own fault for being so persistent.
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