It’s great you feel strongly about the love and dynamic of your relationship.
There’s not a ‘one size fits all’ blueprint for a relationship so while some things I read about don’t sit comfortably with me, I ask myself how their dynamic effects me and when the answer is “it doesn’t” I have no reason to judge them.
Yes i suppose you are right it is just that i know of some couples that have delved into these types of things and have not ended well not just for them but their families. Its the children i feel sorry for. I will try and bite my tongue in future.
Oh, I agree absolutely that on occasions it can go horribly wrong.
My best guess is that’s most likely when one partner is not entirely honest with the other. Whether that be due to insecurities, jealousy, trying to fix a broken relationship or when they are pressured into agreeing to it when they don’t actually want to…
Totally agree its normally exactly any one of those reasons.
No. I don’t like to share.
Absolutely not for me. If a partner suggested it then I would not only decline but I would probably question the future of the relationship full stop, to me that’s a pretty big incompatibility.
I totally get that some people are not only okay with it but it actively strengthens them, I am just not one of those people. I cannot share.
I think whether it’s worth it as some have mentioned is up to individual couples. It’s also dependent on people’s experiences and demands of what a relationship is.
At 19 I dated and eventually was engaged to a man who introduced me to swinging. For us it moved quickly into a close group of people and couples and then into mostly him getting off to watching me hook up with guys. I can tell you it was intoxicating being the center of attention, not only for me but for his experience also. Geographic differences ended us.
I guess what I’m getting at is everyone’s experiences make things different person by person and couple by couple. We were deeply in love, it was my first true and meaningful relationship, and it just happened to be of the lifestyle choice it was. I told my husband on our 2nd date what I’d been involved in for years as everyone I’d dated since 19 had come from that lifestyle circle. We’re getting close to 20 years total together and we have better sex and stability than at any other point. Everyone is different.
OK, I was taught to love sucking cock. And I learned my lessons well because I love to suck cock and have sucked well over 200 cocks while my husband watched. He is very proud of how well I can throat larger than average cocks.
I get them hard as rocks so they can fuck me and give me dozens of orgasms. My husband says I am a much nicer person when getting regularly fucked. Variety is what keeps it interesting.
Mrs S here so other perspective. I’ve given many blowjobs to other men, some have been with hubby there, some without, some were recorded and sent to him and some he didn’t know about entirely. He loves me cuckholding him and i prefer other people’s cocks.
I’d love to experience something like this but I think I’d be jealous
I guess if it were involving me being in lingerie and maybe I was playing sissy I’d also help with the bj and we could all end up cum swapping that idea definitely turns me on x
My husband says he is jealous that he has watched me fuck 37 men in a night and have over 100 orgasms. He has never fucked more than 7-8 women and cum the same 24 hours. He loves the sound of me cumming.
I think all people prefer variety I’m sexual partners.
No there are some people that prefer to be with only one sexual partner, which is enough for me anyway.
@goddess_germanika Impressive numbers but not something i would be proud of myself
OH and I have discussed this many times… As interesting and exciting as it sounds, the two of us are very possessive of each other and we would never risk what we have for a potential sexual excursion. It will always stay as a fantasy and will never become a reality!
Adding the opposite situation. I have recently had the pleasure of watching my wife go down on another women and wife watching me get a bj from another women. Turn on for both of us.
Why? Sexual women scare you?
No, but stds do and i think my husband would say that i am a very sexual woman but i save it all for him and he is very glad of that. I find a woman can be sexual without having to prove she is by having sex with a lot of men at once.