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Privacy would be the key issue....i think cpls who are new and in same boat would be safer bet...maybe finding like minded people on here is safer than fab???

maybe. Maybe you should start a thread asking who is up for webcamming? leave your ages and prefrences.. ?

Good idea...but i need to find out 1st if we are both up for it lol

AshANDclare wrote:

maybe. Maybe you should start a thread asking who is up for webcamming? leave your ages and prefrences..

*Facepalm*

This is not a hook up site guys(edited by moderator) 

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/help/forum-rules/ read these. This site and forum is for talking about sex toys and relationships, and LoveHoney in general. Not for hooking up. For this, the internet is your friend.

understood Sugar :-)

Well if this was me...

I would start off with maybe introducing her to the idea of watching other couples before joining in. Download some videos from other couples doing webcam shows and then maybe with a few drinks in ya both, recommend watching some.

Obviously not like "Hey wanna watch porn"

Start off by getting horny with each other, bit of touching here and a bit of kissing there but make sure that neither of you reach orgasam. Start by putting on a general TV show or Movie with lots of sex or at least a decent sex scene or two.

Once the sex scene is underway just cuddle and act a little bit shy... Towards the end of the scene start playing but again STOP before orgasams.

Now this is the hard bit... Making the point that what you was watching turned you on without it sounding seedy. If she agrees try pushing futher towards real porn. (search female friendly on porn sites to give her something that is not completely intimidating) and then get down to buisness.

By doing this you have already broke down a couple of barriers and made sure the whole thing was relaxed. Now if you have managed to reach a checkpoint you will be able to put on porn during sex from now on (dont over do it though) slowly transition into watching other couples on webcams. Then get her a eye mask or promise not to get her face but convince her to let you film her and then the last step is to live stream it then live stream and watch someone else.

OR...

Just ask...

Oh sorry Mrs admin. I wasnt intending to "hook up". Pfft

I don't think anyone is accusing people of trying to hook up. 

Just that sort of post would lead to such requests and that is not what the site is about. I admit the Cap locks was not needed so I have edited this out. 

No offense intended and please let's all be mindful of how we come across when we do reply to a post. 

Update on me and my OH regarding webcams...we went away for weekend and spoke about it and its not something she wants to try....so i respect her and glad we spoke....still happy

Great to hear Barney at least you know now😊 who knows what's around the corner it may change given time who knows. Your both happy that's the main thing 👍🏻

+1 LRK :)