I have seen an amazing video where the man is sitting on a chair whilst his lady is lying on her back on the bed. He instructs her where to position her legs, run her hands, remove clothing, how fast, stop, don't cum etc.
This would be something I'd like to try and think my OH would be responsive to it if a little timid till warmed up. I want this as part of our anniversary weekend in the posh hotel. I mentioned in previous posts that I have the nice lingerie bought and room booked. Who has done this, was it cringy or hot, what instructions were you given or did you give?
I'm also thinking of having her 'meet me in the room' but when she gets there its just the lingerie on the bed with a wear me card. Cheesy or ok?