For me it is definitely touch, soft and gentle at first all over and then slowly increasing in pressure and then hubs licking away. For him without a doubt it’s visual!
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For me it is touch I think . I am an unused sex toy , so even the slightest touch can arouse me quickly . Because I am on the self gratification plan I use much visual along with my own touch . Auditory arousal is another method , sexy sweet things or kinky talk make my largest sex organ get busy (brain) . A good porn with sensual sounds can elevate a video if not over acting .
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For me , like it seems for alot of the male responses it’s mainly visual. I really get turned on when my other half dresses up. This range from beautiful lingerie, a roleplay costume or just a going out outfit.
For her she says yes it can turn her on when I’m smart but mainly it’s touch. Luckily we both are happy in these roles. She says it’s really horny when she knows I want her. I find it horny that she is confident! This then lead’s to me touching her! Win win.
However after saying all that she doesn’t need to get all dressed up for us to connect and have fun , just an extra bonus when she does for me.
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It’s definitely touch for me and visual for him. When I feel his breath on my neck or hand in the small of my back eeeee! However when he reverse parks and his arm goes behind my headrest I’m done haha! So sexy! I could watch that all day! 
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I like visual but touch is more important. I have a tremendous desire even for non-sexual touch, and I spend a lot of time even outside the bedroom in physical contact with a partner. Hugging, holding hands, rubbing shoulders…just touching.
But for my biggest turn-on, I love a partner’s fluids inside my body. I love it if my husband cums inside me. Really hot if he’s been in another of my partners first, and her stuff is all over him and it gets pushed inside me. I love it if a partner licks the cum out of me, then spits it in my mouth, or even puts a mouthful of spit inside me to use as lubricant. Sounds gross, but its my thing.
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Something I’ve recently discovered is having my dick slapped. When the wife is giving me a BJ and I am rock hard she slaps it. Honestly it feels amazing and gets me so turned on.
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Love seeing my wife come to bed in only a pair of sexy panties. Love to eat her and rim her in her panties. Love to also watch her suck me, stop, kiss me deep then suck me more, doing this over and over.
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I’m definitely a visual person, I LOVE watching guys masturbate! Seeing and hearing them getting hot and hard is absolutely my biggest turn-on
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Visual, but also my wife telling me about her many, many sexual experiences in the past. Such a turn on
@NawtyNovice, my wife loves that too. Sometimes that is all we do. She will just sit back and watch me masturbate and loves to see me cum.
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Ooohh tough one…
Probably visual.
Cleavage or something tight fitting.
Missus was ready a book in bed last week with her boobs outside the duvet. Really got me going
Just being in the same room as my fella! 
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If the earth is spinning, I’m horny. So it’s hard for me to answer in those parameters. So bear with me if I can’t really answer in terms of physical/visual. I’m a true Dom Pleasing Fetishist to safe word, level (which means consensually), because I’m pretty extreme about it and don’t want any one thinking I’m doing something to someone “no matter what.”.
If anything, it’s the Sapio/Emotional range that does it the most for me, just not in the usual terminology that’s generally applied to. For me, It’s more about paying attention to every nuanced body language gesture, facial expression or physical stimulus response and really trying to get “inside her head.” So that I can feel when to push her harder/longer/faster/slower or lighten my tongue/whatever’s touch to keep her going to the next round. It takes a lot of intuiting, empathetic response and “listening,” to her in every way. Perhaps most especially knowing when not to listen, (unless safe word) to keep pushing her further and further.
When I say to extremes, I do mean to extremes, to the point of true sobbing and literal begging me to stop making her cum. And yet knowing she doesn’t want me to actually stop, because the safe word is almost never said. Whether she’s bound or not; or simply told not to move and slightly smacked on the inner thigh when she starts to quiver, followed by a pause, with a finger pointed and a stern reminder that I told her not to move. The ultimate turn on for me is pushing her as long and far as I can, but knowing when she literally can’t take anymore, stopping before she safe words out, and the control that comes with it, followed by the bewildered look on her face when I’ve actually stopped.
It’s a head game. From start to end, and that’s why Its both what truly drives me wild more than anything else and also what makes it so hard to define in terms of physical versus visual, because both are inherently included. I’ve always been this way, and I don’t know or understand why. It just is. I stopped questioning it long ago. From every random woman or relationship from my past to my GF presently, and the other women we bring in here and there, I hope it never changes.
Definitely has to be watching porn with my partner it get us both in such a horny mood or if it just myself I can get horny or turned on just of thought in the day x
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It can happen randomly for me and even randomly things can get me going. The most reliable thing is OH touching me lightly.
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Not in any order but smell, dressing up, a suit, sense of humour, a tight ass, beards, eye contact with a stranger…
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Both visual and touch…
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It’s visual for me seeing my wife and her amazing naked voluptuous body turns me on every time.
The visual of her huge boobs turn me on every time.
For her she gets turned on by us having dirty talk and by touch.
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These days watching my wife walk towards me, harness on, realistic dildo attached. So hot!
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Curves , stockings and heels , and of course a submissive personality