Sex isn't dirty or naughty to me, so any name along those lines would be really out of sync with me. It would be thoroughly distancing to me, like he was talking to someone else and involved in some fantasy I wasn't a part of at all, even if he was using my body for it.
Somone I tried to have a relationship with a while back would say 'oh, hunni' when he came. He never called me that, or any other term of endearment, so it felt completely separate from me, perhaps the stuff of romantic fantasy. He probably was fully immersed in his own head space at the time too.
What's always had the greatest impact is when I've said my partner's name with intensity, like you might say 'oh god', and full of intimacy. That would be my preference, though I'll settle for a unique pet name or anything which lets me know that I truly matter in the whole thing.
I know it’s supposed to be a huge faux pas, but who out there has actually done it? I admit I have, albeit slightly. I used to fuck a girl named Kim, but then I started banging a girl named Melissa. I’ve occasionally called them by the other’s names in real life, but it wasn’t weird because they’re tight friends—practically interchangeable and name switching is common among friends. I’ve accidentally called Melissa Kim in bed, and I felt really bad for doing so. But Melissa, who has no idea about my past with Kim, has just chuckled as if to correct me quietly.
So who here has called their partner another person’s name?
Back in my girl form when it was just me and GF, I was “creamgirl.” For obvious, drippy reasons.
These days, I love it if my husband calls me his little slut. Its just so endearing Sometimes when he’s in me, GF will come up to us and handle me a bit, and jokingly say that she never imagined I’d be such a “cute little cock holster” or a “greedy little sperm bank.” Not as endearing but I don’t mind either.
When in horny/kinky mode wife loves to be called a horny little slut,cock hungry whore and also loves to be called a prostitute.When we role play a little she flows when i tell her it’s my turn as her husband to have her now after her day at the whorehouse and all the different cocks she’s had.I love being called a cocksucker,sissy or fairy when being pegged hard.When she pegs me slow and lovingly i love being called “Penny” or “Penelope” which is my en femme name.
Sometimes when he’s in me, GF will come up to us and handle me a bit, and jokingly say that she never imagined I’d be such a “cute little cock holster” or a “greedy little sperm bank.” Not as endearing but I don’t mind either.