Sex isn't dirty or naughty to me, so any name along those lines would be really out of sync with me. It would be thoroughly distancing to me, like he was talking to someone else and involved in some fantasy I wasn't a part of at all, even if he was using my body for it.
Somone I tried to have a relationship with a while back would say 'oh, hunni' when he came. He never called me that, or any other term of endearment, so it felt completely separate from me, perhaps the stuff of romantic fantasy. He probably was fully immersed in his own head space at the time too.
What's always had the greatest impact is when I've said my partner's name with intensity, like you might say 'oh god', and full of intimacy. That would be my preference, though I'll settle for a unique pet name or anything which lets me know that I truly matter in the whole thing.
I know itâs supposed to be a huge faux pas, but who out there has actually done it? I admit I have, albeit slightly. I used to fuck a girl named Kim, but then I started banging a girl named Melissa. Iâve occasionally called them by the otherâs names in real life, but it wasnât weird because theyâre tight friendsâpractically interchangeable and name switching is common among friends. Iâve accidentally called Melissa Kim in bed, and I felt really bad for doing so. But Melissa, who has no idea about my past with Kim, has just chuckled as if to correct me quietly.
So who here has called their partner another personâs name?
Back in my girl form when it was just me and GF, I was âcreamgirl.â For obvious, drippy reasons.
These days, I love it if my husband calls me his little slut. Its just so endearing Sometimes when heâs in me, GF will come up to us and handle me a bit, and jokingly say that she never imagined Iâd be such a âcute little cock holsterâ or a âgreedy little sperm bank.â Not as endearing but I donât mind either.
When in horny/kinky mode wife loves to be called a horny little slut,cock hungry whore and also loves to be called a prostitute.When we role play a little she flows when i tell her itâs my turn as her husband to have her now after her day at the whorehouse and all the different cocks sheâs had.I love being called a cocksucker,sissy or fairy when being pegged hard.When she pegs me slow and lovingly i love being called âPennyâ or âPenelopeâ which is my en femme name.
I like a mix of playful and intimate names, you know, ones that make the moment feel special. But honestly, it's all about what feels right between you and your partner, so communication is key. Finding the right vibe can make things even hotter.
Not a name I called her or she called me, but a GF used to sign off her texts, especially the naughtier ones, with âyours, SWAAPâ
Being monumentally dumb I thought it was something foreign and didnât really give it much thought at first but actuallyâŚâŚ
âSl*t With An Aching Pussyâ
Unfortunately, once, in the very earliest days of a relationship - the (now wifeâs) name when shortened is almost identical in sound to my exâs name when shortened. And it just came out. I think I got away with it, but I still felt terrible about it.
Sometimes when heâs in me, GF will come up to us and handle me a bit, and jokingly say that she never imagined Iâd be such a âcute little cock holsterâ or a âgreedy little sperm bank.â Not as endearing but I donât mind either.