What’s most likely to push me over the edge and squirt / gush?

Shopping for a new toy for my husband to use on me and for alone time. I get so close to squirting but can’t quite get over the line. G spot stimulation gets me very close so was thinking of the mantric g spot vibe but then the womanizer and wand reviews all seem to suggest this is the way many women squirt for the first time. Can’t afford all three so where should I start?! ?

It all depends on what seems to be getting you closest, clit stimulation or G spot. The most trusted I believe is G spot, and firm pressure to boot. I would recommend a glass or steel dildo. You can then also use them for temperature play. An alternative if you are more of a fan of silicone would be https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=39652 which still has the firmness and weight of a lighter steel dildo.

Something you may want to have a look at. Jess made these amazing Vlogs part 1 https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2019/02/25/youtube-lovehoney-vlog-squirting-orgasm/ and part 2 https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2019/03/02/youtube-lovehoney-vlog-how-to-squirt/

Thanks, I’ll check them out I decided to treat myself and bought a couple 😂 Still, always willing to consider more if they don’t work!

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29418 This made me gush like crazy (the towels and mat didn’t cope lol)

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30946 This also had me gushing like crazy.

good luck with getting over the edge!

The womaniser starlet is pretty much the best toy in our collection but it’s more for clitoral stimulation and doesn’t tend to allow my partner to squirt. We use the classic “come here” motion with two fingers pointing up and a bullet on the clit to build up the tension. My number one piece of advice and this is the most important is don’t focus solely on “squirting”. Putting too much pressure on this will have a hugely adverse affect and you will struggle to reach the point. Just let your partner play around for a bit, apply more and less pressure on your Gspot and once you feel the build up just let him go to town until you go over the edge! G spot vibes and dildos are great for you to find the spot and it’s a fun way to explore so maybe look into getting a cheap one or a glass G spot dildo as they are hard and smooth ☺️

A curveball I know, but stainless steel hooks don’t cost a huge amount and got me from wet to gushing puddle. I found most conventional steel and glass dildos didn’t quite have the bend angle I needed.

Best of luck with whatever you choose.


My wife has NEDVER EVER not squirted at least once, usually 3 or more times in one session with multiple orgasms of over 10 times. It's incredible and turns me on enjoying this with her.

Lelo Sona Cruise is the only toy that makes me squirt

Not so much squirting or gushing for me, more of a 'pooling', and a recent realisation that this is what is happening, but for me it's g-spot stimulation. Doggy position is great for it (love the feeling of that, hate the name!), or my husband's fingers in firm, upward stokes or steady pressure. In terms of toys I'd go for steel or glass - doesn't have to be curved and the straight ones are often easier to angle to find the right personal spot (turning the curved ones isn't always comfortable for me). These tend to give more pressure than silicone, imo, and they are more versatile for other uses e.g. massage too. Plus, they look good! Tends to happen for me during a longer session and when I'm not thinking about it. Nice surprise!