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sounds painful, wouldnāt you have to stick a metal ruler straight through the middle or do you have some of those fancy caliper things?
I guess you could stick it in someoneās mouth and measure the distance between their teeth - I think Iāll go with that
Where does the 
come in???
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Not a bad idea. The pi comes after sticking it in someoneās mouth 
(but also circumference is 2pir where r is the radius)
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Weāve been using Pasante King Size condoms recently while Iām temporarily off the pill, so I know my OH measures 6ā in girth as we measured him for those. Iām not sure about his length - Iām looking at the kitchen tiles and I want to say about that long, so 6-7ā? (Iām visualising my view down from a standing kiss)
With him thereās no chance of a quickie, even when Iām on the pill, as it takes some warming up and has been uncomfortable at times - this is one thing I miss about smaller exes. His length is definitely more manageable than his girth as I have a far-forward tilted cervix that I donāt enjoy being bashed by longer appendages. He still seems perfectly long to me though.
We tried the Skins XL condoms first but they were way too tight, so he offered the remainder up to his older brother. OHās bro now thinks he overestimated his package and is ribbing him about buying the standard size in future
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Are more sexually liberal people more likely to deviate from having an average todger? Everyone here seems massive or smaller than average. But there seems to be a recurring trend I find that the less vanilla people are they do actually tend to diverge from average. I wonder why!
Thatās perhaps the main thing that puts me off condoms. I love a bit, even quite a bit of pain on the penis but tight condoms is a different type of erection killing uncomfortable pain
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Every time I see the title of this thread, I get it to the tune of āHow deep is your loveā by the Bee Gees. 
(You know:
How big is your cock?
How big, how big is your cock?
I really need to know
etc)
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Try One Condom for they do custom size condom so no matter how big they got a size for you. Over 9 in long and some size girth. Even fits a small penis like me. I am 4 and half inches long and 4 and a quarter inches long. Wife doesnāt complain but she always gets oral before or after since I do not last long enough to orgasm her with just sex.
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Thanks. I will check them out 
I think around 6/6.5, and seems to be operated well enough as the customer complaints hotline has not needed answering 
No idea on girth, would think on the slim side though if anything, which is prob why never measured ha ha
Occasionally (maybe more occasionally than I care to admit) operates in quick fire mode, I just reassure OH itās a big compliment that she obv hits the right buttons, spend some time teasing her after whilst the wee fella gets warmed up ready to go again! Everyone loves 2 for the price of 1.
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I think I am fairly average, in that 6.5 -7" length with a girth that is around 5-6" as well. I am circumsized and the head is a bit bigger in girth than the shaft.
The OH says I am too big for anal and doesnāt like it. Itās always been my guilty pleasure to do anal as it looks better on the screen than it likely isā¦ Iād love to switch back and forth from all holes.
This precipitates another questionā¦ when we have sex the OH complains of soreness fairly quickly into the round. edited I always shave my shaft to ensure that hair isnāt causing an irritation, but still she gets quickly sore and loses interest. She isnāt on any meds or the pill as I have had a vasectomy but seems to lack moisture. Do you think it is my size? Her size? Moving along too quickly? We typically use a silicone lube and she isnāt allergic to it but seems to still absorb it and require more and more to keep her wet.
Ideas or suggestions are welcomeā¦ Please redirect to a different chat topic if inappropriate here.
Thanks!
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That made me laugh.
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not as big as it was a couple of hours ago
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edited by mod My wife once turned down having sex with a guy who was 8 inches.
Iāve known him for nearly 26 years, and 15 of those years weāve been together. First month or so it was just sex then we got into a relationship. Iāve never had any discomfort with him at any point
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That is amazing that it was never uncomfortable. edited by mod My wife biggest guy was 7 and she said that was painful. Before me her favorite penis was 6 inches and 5.5 in round. She did have sex once with a guy who was about 3 in. He thought he was huge and she was her first. He was devastated when she told him he was one of the smaller ones. edited. She says it has to be a minimum of just over four. I just barely made it. I give great oral though to make up for my shortness in length.
I donāt know the actual size, but they were a lot smaller. Hubbys the only proper relationship Iāve had, my previous were abusive physically and mentally. So I tried my hardest to stay away from the sexual side
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I am the same as her, NEED lube in order for it not to feel immediately sore as I produce almost no natural lubrication 
All I can say is donāt be shy to use a lot and to reapply, and be generous where you spread it too 
For me it seems to be the dry skin on dry skin contact that causes more friction than any hair causes (unless itās at the stubble stage then holy heck that burns ) I recently got this lube, havenāt had a chance to try it out yet, but it might be worth a look (itās a thicker type (almost jelly-like) silicone lube, so it might keep her lubricated for longer) 
Same here. Makes you appreciate the nice guys when they come along 
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Iāve only started using lube recently for added fun. My OH needs to go slow to begin with - just the tip, maybe even remove completely to tease some more. Heās very gentle until I tell him to speed-up or whatever. Just cramming it in is rarely welcome at any size.
My ex was very long and I found it way more uncomfortable - his standard girth lulled him into a false sense of security when it came to ābanging it homeā, and I would have to tell him to stop or get off/out on more than a few occasions. I guess it depends on the woman though as weāre all made different.
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