I was mortified, and even more so when I found out another pupil had told her ...
To be honest you it does only take one little bastard to spoil 10 kids 'innocence'!
WandA wrote:
I wonder if any of us would be surprised by our mums!
I know my mum owns (or at least owned) a rabbit and at least one porn DVD that I know of, although she doesnt know about me knowing, or that I know about my dad's porn mags either. I'd tell them if they ever found my toys and complained, just to let them know how hypocritical they were lol! They couldnt really tell me off for having toys if I told them I know they have them too.
i dont think it spoils a kids innocence. ive know about sex in a candid and honest way since i was about 3 ( in the kind of it makes babies - "special cuddle" way) and i was perfectly innocent till i was about 13 ish.
just cause a child has the information dosent mean they will use it. in fact the more information young people have the less likley they are to have sex at a young age
I agree! Children should be taught from a young age.
But I'm talking about the 8 year old who picks it up from the 15 year old chav brother! Hardly education.
I think my mum has a pretty good idea what I'm like, after spotting the rechargeable vibe on my bedside table *cringe*
She was diplomatic and complimented my new headboard though LOL
My mum knows more than most of my friends parents about what I'm like... my OH used to stay over at mine 3 nights a week until we got our own place. She is also aware that I have a very large lingerie collection and is regularly pointing out things that she thinks I would like. That said she doesn't know about my vibe collection but I don't think she would be surprised.
I think some of my girls 'skimpies' have shocked my stepdad if he sorts the washing! We tend to handwash anything crotchless or kinky.
When your my size nothing is skimpy lol
Can't imagine my father-in-law dealing with any of my undies though
My Mom obviously knows because well... She does!
I obviously don't tell her when I have sex or masterbate but she knows I'm doing it because I've had to ask her about stuff in the past.
Also my Dad knows some stuff because he's had to give me a lift to get the morning after pill in the past and I've told him I've needed to get condoms.
It doesn't bother them as they know I'm in a relationship, being careful and most of all not making it obvious. Which is always a good thing. =P
i think my toy box might freak out my dad, my mum would probably be fine, though. only had a couple when i lived there, so wasnt really an issue, but have LOADS now!! they would probably think i was some crazy sex-freak!!! x
WandA wrote:
I agree! Children should be taught from a young age.
But I'm talking about the 8 year old who picks it up from the 15 year old chav brother! Hardly education.External Media
I imagine it was her friends teenage trollop of a daughter so yes I agree it all depends on the source ... I dont agree with telling them babies come from cuddles or out of belly buttons, there are kids out there having babies when they are 11 so she needs to be aware as soon as she can comprehend the information. I have always answered and clearly and simply any questions like that without giving her scary detail, like little lady's parents I prefer to be supportive and open and make sure she is safe with all the facts and help I can offer.
Firecracker wrote:
I imagine it was her friends teenage trollop of a daughter so yes I agree it all depends on the source ... I dont agree with telling them babies come from cuddles or out of belly buttons, there are kids out there having babies when they are 11 so she needs to be aware as soon as she can comprehend the information. I have always answered and clearly and simply any questions like that without giving her scary detail, like little lady's parents I prefer to be supportive and open and make sure she is safe with all the facts and help I can offer.
Whoo for good parenting!
WandA wrote:
Firecracker wrote:
I imagine it was her friends teenage trollop of a daughter so yes I agree it all depends on the source ... I dont agree with telling them babies come from cuddles or out of belly buttons, there are kids out there having babies when they are 11 so she needs to be aware as soon as she can comprehend the information. I have always answered and clearly and simply any questions like that without giving her scary detail, like little lady's parents I prefer to be supportive and open and make sure she is safe with all the facts and help I can offer.
Whoo for good parenting!
I try my best, doesn't explain why she seems to spend most of her time like she is auditioning to star in the Exorcist
WandA wrote:
Just thinking how quickly society has changed and what is/was acceptable and what isn't.
What normal aspect of your sex life would horrify your parents, grandparents or kooky old spinster aunts?!?
My mum likes to play it 'cool'. Leaving me with some uneasy questions so she would'nt be particulary judgemental but I don't think she would be too enthused if I started discussing the beneifits of anal play....
What about your fam?
If we happen to be staying with my parents, my mother takes great pride in maximising the opportunity to take the piss out of us for making too much noise.
I definteily got my wicked sense of humour from her!
too much sleep? too much noise even lol
Obv my mum knows i'm sexually active - the baby was a big giveaway! lol She also knows i like my toys, when i first ever moved out of home my mum was very nice and packed most of my stuff up whilst i was out working, she came down one day and said here you are heres your bag of gadgets lol. I wouldnt discuss anything with her tho or my dad!
Gembobs wrote:
Obv my mum knows imsexually active-baby was a big giveaway! lol She also knows i like my toys, when i first ever moved out of home my mum was very nice and packed most of my stuff up whilst i was out working, she came down one day and said here you are heres your bag of gadgets lol. I wouldnt discuss anything with her tho or my dad!
Hehe, gadgets!
LivingFire wrote:
I can see why it's rather unpleasant for you as it's your mother, but I have to say, us fatties have sex too... and not just bland, plain sex, but hot, sweaty, kinky sex. *wobbles back off her soap box*
Actually I agree, I am probably HUGE by your standards (size 20) and I'm as kinky as they come - far more than when I was skinny.
I KNOW no offence was meant , but I'll admit my first gut reaction on reading that post was 'ouch!' that hurt!
Why thank you! :)