I just realised that I don’t have a safe word, well kinda, if I say stop he stops. But saying that he’s really good at reading my body and my body will say stop before the words do. But its odd, I’ve never not had a specific word agreed. I’d probably forget it in the moment anyway.
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@Married_Man30 So what is your definition?
@JoCat Ive never needed the safe word. He seems to just get me!
Several times he has stopped and said “dont like that?” … “too much?” etc
But I know 100% the word would halt everything
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He’s reading your body, we like men that are observant 
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@JoCat Good point I didn’t put mine in…
But it would be similar to what’s been said, but I guess the difference for me and this isn’t to say oh look at me it’s just how our sex life is…
Amazing sex to me is my wife laying there completely and utterly satisfied, sexual compersion is so high up on my agenda, I like her to have all the orgasms she wants before we take care of me… a real deep connection and when she just looks at me and you know she is totally in heaven… That is my biggest turn on… and what I deem amazing Sex…
Now that looks different from time to time… with older kids now having long sessions has become a little more problematic, but when they’re both in school and we’re home alone it’s on…
That’s my version…
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Amazing sex for me is when myself and my OH are lying cuddling together and kissing because this ignites a spark in both of us and a sexual urge that needs satisfying!! The passion between us is unreal and the feel of each others bodies touching and becoming closer as he looks into my eyes and the chemistry between us becomes deeper and more passionate and the desire to satisfy each other intensifies to orgasmic levels and we watch eachother have the most intense orgasm ever.
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