We sometimes do bursts but we try to do something sexy at least once or twice a week.
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May 17th for us, so 21 days.
Itās the longest dry spell weāve had in a while.
Iāve been up and down about it so can relate. OH just started a business while also still working his full time job while he gets up and running. Iām helping every way I can but itās a physical job, heās so tired and stressed but in the long run it will be worth it.
Sex and stress are a no go for both of us. Especially for him. But, heās still playful here and there, and weāve talked about it. He just canāt get in to the headspace while heās got so much going on (he has ADHD, so his brain works differently)
I miss him so much but heās still there and we are still good. It is good practice for me to remember that our relationship doesnāt need sex to be strong and loving, as I often rely on it too much when I have no reason to.
Thanks for the thread.
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We usually have playtime every weekend so its usually 7 days. we missed last weekend to to certain things so we are going to make up for it this weekend, hopefully.
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Iāve been traveling since May 27 and we had sex before I left. It is the longest drought since last time she gave birth seven years ago. Which is saying a lot because weāve been together 13 years and married for 11. I fly home tomorrow and canāt wait! With that being said, I do take it as a bonus and not the main satisfaction point of our relationship. Just so happens our libidos match up.
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16 May
21 days ago
No PIV for literally decades, my wife finds it uncomfortable, but sheās recently developed an interest in anal. Which just goes to show that things can change when you least expect it.
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Mine was probably over a month ago now or getting on for that 
Really have my fingers crossed for tonight as there has been a slow build and burn working itās way into our conversations and bed time chats.
I have actually tried to ignore the flirting cause it never ends up in anything and I get pissed off when she turns over and goes to sleep after 30 minutes of foot play and chatterā¦
I do want to ask her about her feelings but I have had the same conversation about 3 or 4 times and nothing changesā¦ So if she wants to talk about it, I will talk about it. I canāt tell her sheās beautiful as she doesnāt agree and feels that when I buy her lingerie itās cause she needs it to look prettyā¦ so frustrating! So I stopped buying her gifts and stopped engaging in any sexual talk as she gets quiet and moody. I just go work outside or on projectsā¦Iād rather feel good about getting projects done than be pissed off about what I canāt haveā¦I would rather make my life better if sex isnāt ever in the cards or is only on her schedule.
It feels unfair and I have almost had enough of it. However, for some of you who have learned to deal with it, I appreciate what you are going through and support you all, regardless of orientation or gender. Any advice would be appreciated but I feel that itās easier to avoid it - more frustrating but simpler.
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May 29th
9 days so far.
Currently OH has a lot going on in he is not in a good head space. I canāt really blame him, I try not to pester him for sex and he gives me space to take care of my needs, and like to give me at least one day a week with an empty house. Though recently he has been a little more involved with at least a few slaps on the ass every day.
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I feel for you @valbowski77 
Iāve been in a similar situation as you and there really is no quick fix. You can tell someone theyāre beautiful 24/7 but if they donāt think they are then they simply wonāt believe you. Thereās absolutely nothing you can do to change their mind. They have to accept it themselves before any change can take place.
I donāt know if people do deal with it or just accept it as part of their life .
I hope you can get some constructive advice about this to put into practice and make your life easier and happier .
Everything crossed for you , best of luck 
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Really interesting to read the varied experiences, sometimes it seems like everyone is at it like rabbits, so it is reassuring that all go through dry spells from time to time for a multitude of reasons.
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Well Holy Shitā¦reset the clock. We are back to zero days after a surprise session last night. We went on a date night and then a night cap at a friends house.
Mrs. Val hopped into bed without her usual full body snow suit and said, āI think I have my mojo backāā¦ pretty average session but fantastic compared to nothing! I will take it that is for sure.
I finished her first after a long oral session on her and then switching to her giving me oral and me fingering her to orgasm. Then she laid me back and finished me with an HJ/BJ after a decent PIV stint. Pretty good for us.
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On Monday 
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This morning.
Went back to bed wearing my big plug, cage, steel glans ring and nipple chains.
This morning she decided that I needed some humiliation.
She told me that I wasnāt good enough to be inside her body but she would let me fxxk her hand instead. She opened her hand for me but kept it completely still and I had to do all the work. Every time I got close to coming she moved away till I calmed down then offered me her hand again.
Eventually she decided to use the wand on my exposed glans instead but she still wouldnāt let me come.
Finally I had to watch as she masturbated to orgasms with her wand.
Itās been a great morning so far.
Then she started again just after Iād finished writing.
This time she stroked me slowly and gently. Just enough to keep me hard as a rock but not enough to get me to orgasm.
Iām absolutely exhausted and horny as hell at the same time.
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Dirty Weekend away sessions
Friday evening after some dinner a walk along the promenade when back to the Airbnb both got in the shower for some foreplay just fingers and hands
Then took things to the bed finishing with wife getting her view of the sea while she had a butt plug in and PIV doggystyle while she played with her bullet making us both cum together 
Later than evening she got ready for bed in her sexk LH lingerie set
Saturday morning we had a mutual session but masturbating eachother using her dildo and bullet on her while she jerked me off with my Stroker
Sunday morning I got on top of her PIV she then got on top reverse cowgirl making me cum
She hadnāt so said to her sit on my face and Iāll make you cum
I licked and sucked at her pussy and clit including the creampie I had left inside her
She didnāt take long to cum
Great weekend away
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Yesterday morning a quick shag before he went to work. But still very satisfying 
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I feel your frustration, Iām 7 months now. Hang on I donāt want to be winning thisā
This morning.
She inserted my inflatable vibrating butt plug and fitted me with a pair of screw type nipple suckers then strapped me down to the bed.
Every so often she tightened the nipple suckers and inflated the plug further till both were just on the edge of bearable pain then she left me to go have her shower (still contactable in an emergency).
I love it when she leaves me restrained and stimulated in some way. I get into a very focused headspace.
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Would have been this morning, OH nice sun dress, flashed me showing no panties, it was also clear that bra was missing in action.
But whilst the mind was saying yes, yes, yes, other parts were slower to resond, at best we got to half mast, and so the moment was lost. 
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@steve19
Definitely was win win, wifeās already started looking at our next weekend away
Somewhere secluded in the countryside with a hot tub, she said so we can have sex outside and that she can bit a bit more vocal
Thinking back the only thing if Iād have thought about it was when she sat on my face and I licked her to orgasm that I licked and tasted and swallowed my own cum, but wife she this really turned her on plus in the moment of passion I didnāt think about it
Itās not accurately that bad when your doing it
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