A quiet ‘lie in’ the morning after a busy and very enjoyable days wandering around a beautiful Cheshire City on my birthday. Lovely wife decides that a sensual BJ is in order and sets to. How fabulous. THEN A well lubricated middle finger of lovely wife is thrust right up where this thread is talking about. Bang on P point target. How on Earth I didn’t explode into her mouth I don’t know. I think we both thoroughly enjoyed the fun so much, a fair while was needed to lay back and recover.
Stick with it @jn45746 it will come, forgive the pun! Don’t put yourself under and pressure and I am sure you will experience it at some point with the right toy
I think i have officially convinced myself that I can’t have a prostate orgasm, i have been trying for years and still nothing, either i need hard and fast stimulation similarly like i read another person needs or i simply can not have one. my hands free milking toys that i have now don’t do much.
You have years ahead of you, don’t give up, take a break from it perhaps and don’t put yourself under any pressure. I only had my first prostate orgasm recently and I am a different generation than you. Mine required quite a high level of stimulation over a long period of time after using various different toys
It hasn’t been constant trying over years but when I get time i try, I have a number of prostate massages including milkers. I feel my only change now is to invest in a sex machine for hard fast constant simulation
Must have lay with the prostate massager in for at least 30 mins, as epic as it was I didn’t reach hands free P orgasm, clearly need more time. Once the glass beaded dildo was in, it didn’t take long for the cum to fly the furthest I’ve seen it go in a long time
Try sitting on the prostate massager next time, assuming it is the right shape . I achieved a p spot orgasm sat at my desk vibrating away! Meant I could shift my position for more intense vibrations
The one I have and was using, which I really don’t rate to be fair, it’s a bit of an awkward shaped one. Needs to be held in place, which in itself is difficult to do, and I find a good bit of energy and attention to do that takes away the focus on what I’m trying to achieve, if that makes sense. Will need to look about investing in a new one I think
