We have a strap, a paddle, a flogger and a cane.
The paddle is the one I dread/love the most.
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My OH isnt particularly interested in spanking but I have always wanted to give it a try, particularly having read lots of posts on here about it. So I decided to give self spanking a try using hand and leather belt. I find it quite a turn on!
I am going to have a go at making a wooden spanking paddle with long handle. I am thinking this might make it a little easier to hit the right spot. Whenit is made I will see about uploading some photos! All advice welcome.
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Last night had a great session where I was bent over bed and he flogged me
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Last night long and hard with hand and wooden paddle.
This morning with a crop.
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2 days ago.
I had been grouchy in the morning so she took me upstairs and caned me as a punishment then she pegged me with my ass covered in red stripes.
I love this woman.
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Love self spanking with the paddle, makes my rear go very red, wooden spoon is a good one but more painful
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Riding crop yesterday morning as i watched a Bailey Jay video and told the wife how much iād like to suck her cock and also lick out Daisy Taylors ass.She continued my āpunishmentā until i came,which wasnāt long!
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This morning.
Not spanked but flogged all over my upper body before being pegged.
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Do people enjoy been spanked,how does it help in foreplay.?
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A christmas silicone spatula the other night 
Just getting in the festive spirit!
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I enjoy it immensely but i would imagine itās not for everyone.
I know that my wife would hate being on the receiving end of any impact play.
Physically it sensitises the skin making it far more receptive to touches. Mentally it puts me in the correct submissive headspace for whatever follows.
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I love it, we donāt do what is probably thought of as traditional spanking. We use a belt or mostly him slapping my boobs with his hands while weāre having PIV, we get a bit violent when weāre grrrryā¦I love it 
I wouldnāt class it as foreplay mind, its all part of it and we do it at all different times when either of us wants it. Weāll either incorporate it into PIV or weāll stop PIV to āspankā and then either go back to PIV or something else.
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This morning .
Not spanked but suspended by my wrists from the spreader bar and flogged.
Weāve just started impact play but sheās improving her technique each time.
The stripes are starting to last longer each time. I love carrying the marks she makes on me.
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Iāve not been spanked for a long time but found myself chatting about it in a coffee shop in Bath with a man I happened to be sharing a table with.
He offered to spank me, nothing more, nothing less, just come over and spank me when I want it.
I am very very tempted to take up his offer but havenāt done anything about it for months but think about it a lot when I am at home.
Thoughts?
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I have in the past paid woman to spank me - nothing more - I just turn up - put on my outfit and get spanked - but it was not as good as I wanted
I have used a proper dominant and she was excellent at spanking as I also love the bitch talk - I would highly recommend as I went away with a good sore bottom and felt well spanked
I feel for a man itās easier- but dangerous for a woman unless itās safe and you know their motive
I wish we could exchange as it could be a spanking meeting - I spank you and you spank me ā¦
Hope you get a good spanking soon 
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After reading on here about spanking I decided to have a go at self spanking the other day (as OH not interested). Made myself a long handled paddle and gave it a go. Loved it! A bit sore but nice and red bum cheeks!
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Yeah it is the sore red bum cheeks I really miss.
A proper lunchtime spanking that brings tears to my eyes and then sore all evening in secret is a lovely treat and I have not had it for so long.
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I have been very very tempted to take up his offer. Texting this week has moved things forward a little.
It would be a massive step though.
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Not spanked but flogged this morning while impaled on a dildo and masturbating with a Fleshlight Quickshot.
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Not spanked but hung from the spreader bar and give a good going over with the flogger and the new crop.
The crop is very nice. It is easy for my wife to use, makes a great sound on impact and has left me very nicely marked.
Definitely a good pairing
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