@rockstar - can I ask with the cane - did you buy from a web site such as Lovehoney or did you make it yourself using a garden bamboo
I’m looking for a old school cane with a turned top - and am I correct that the thinner the more pain
My husband always wants more and I’m happy to oblige- recently I bought him a pair of pu tight leggings - and when wearing these I can really go to town on the cane I have - but as I strip him down to his bum - I go lighter 
The new canes are synthetic but we do have a proper cane with a turned end which I bought from a BDSM website.
The thinner canes sting more but, since they are lighter and carry less momentum, they need more effort to get the required effect.
This morning.
Not spanked but caned.
I was hung from my wrists by the spreader bar with my ankles cuffed together.
She was wearing her Santa Basque, matching red knickers and red hold-ups.
She used the thinnest (6mm) of our new synthetic canes.
5 strokes on each bum cheek repeated 5 times so 50 strokes in total.
This thin cane is all ‘sting’ and no ‘thud’ but it is not at all tiring for her to use and it has left some lovely red and purple stripes across my bum.
Yesterday we tried the second thickest of our new synthetic canes, the 8mm one.
As before she gave me 5 strokes on each bum cheek repeated 5 times so 50 strokes in total.
I honestly didn’t think that the 8mm cane would feel much different to the previous 6mm one but it definitely did.
The sting was still there but there was a definite ‘thud’ too.
My wife also felt the weight difference and found it trickier to control.
When the bruises fade we’ll try the 10mm version.
Spanked my husband this morning as we had the house to ourselves - used a leather paddle on his bottom and ruler on his penis - good red results all round
Wife usually spanks me with her hand. Yesterday when I was getting changed.
My husbands belt, on my boobs and bum, amazing…xx
It was a group spanking with some comparative newbies, so it was comparatively light (although they didn’t think so). Hand, paddle, hairbrush and belt. Quite old school.
I’m normally caned weekly but was given an advent calendar in December that lasted 31 days rather than 24. It was made up envelopes within which was a number….the number of strokes of the cane I’d receive that day. On the few days where it wasn’t practical, the strokes were carried forward. The lowest number was 10 and highest was 50. I love being caned and this was quite a challenge but done lovingly.
I quite enjoyed December…. Looking forward to next Christmas already.
We’ve just tried out the third of our 4 new impact toys. A 2’ long silicone pigtail whip.
I was hung up by my wrists using the over-door restraints and our intention was for the usual 50 strokes (5 each side followed by a rest repeated 5 times).
That thing is evil though.
From the first blow I knew I was in trouble. There was the usual thud and sting as expected but the texture of the silicone grabbed and pulled at my skin each time and it was really painful.
I managed 15 strokes each side then I had to use my safe word. That’s never happened before.
I’m afraid that’s one toy that’s going in the bin.
Been ages and I love to be spanked with a paddle even better is to be flogged gets me extra horny when OH has her latex on with gloves and flogs my balls nice and gentle
I’ve never been spanked by anyone else but it’s a fairly regular thing when I’m on cam with my wank buddies I usually just slap myself with my hand but I should remember to try a ruler or maybe garden cane
The act of doing it really turns me on
Sometimes it’s wearing my lingerie other times I’m naked
My guys sometimes do the same thing too and we show each other our red cheeks
Omg that must have been some evil to stop you from enjoying your punishment
Where did you get it from - sounds quite innocent but clearly not
Stick to the cane - you know where you are with it
I hope your bum heals soon - you still deserve a good spanking
It was my back and it’ll be a while before it’s ready to go again.
Last night with a paddle. The bruising and aches in my rear today keep me turned on wanting more.
Last night.
The third and the thickest (10mm) of our new synthetic resin canes.
Not surprisingly there was less ‘sting’ and more ‘thud’ than the other two thinner versions but it was nicely painful and had left some lovely bruises this morning.
There’s a picture in the Lingerie Photo uploads thread.
A couple of hours ago. I have a meeting that I was feeling really nervous for, so to calm me down, he spanked me with hand, paddle, tawse and cane. Worked a treat.
@rockstar - my compliments to your wife - she has a good aim and nice marks left
Hope you enjoyed yourself- hope you recover soon for more
Yes. She’s come on amazingly well.
Last night
Hung from the over door wrist restraints and given 30 strokes with the Tawse as a warm-up then 40 strokes with the paddle.
My bum is nicely coloured this morning.