So both penis and vagina owners , when you need to cum. Do you sort it there and then. Wife doesn’t understand sometimes that I just need to cum . Anyone else
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Not always but then I also understand everyone is different and if you feel the need and aren’t busy, fill your boots. Masturbating is healthy[1] as long as it isn’t used as an alternative for sex and you can still perform when required 
in my opinion ↩︎
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Not always but I do put a “utility wank” on my schedule. That sounds awful I know but my husband doesn’t understand sometimes I don’t want to wait all day and then have him come home, be tired and pass out on the sofa. Sometimes I do want to masturbate, rest for ten and then get back to work.
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My husband is mid 30’s now but for most of his 20’s he would need to cum at least once a day and often a couple of times. There were many times, especially at weekends, where I would ask him if we needed to wank him before we went out somewhere and made sure he’d cum.
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Yep, sometimes you just need to cum, happens to me often
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Samantha here.
I wouldn’t say i get “the need to cum” feeling. I like to have sex daily but if we cant have sex i will wait until we do. I probably only masturbate once or twice a year on my own.
During lockdown was probably the last time i would say i just needed to cum.
I can have 50 orgasms a week from 3 or 4 sex sessions with ben so maybe that keeps me going on the days we dont have sex 
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Ben needs to cum 2 or 3 times a day. I can always tel as he gets grumpy. I gave him a bj this morning before work and will hopefully get some sex in when he gets in from work and then ill give him a bj in bed later. (Unless im too tired and he’ll sort himself out).
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I’ve had that feeling a few times - I don’t want sex I just need to cum quickly - I usually just go to the bathroom and rub myself in that situation
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Laast weeekend I tried not to cum, so she could enjoy more time with me hard inside her, as she never gets it at home. A few times I had to pull out and restrain myself, but eventually she said cum in me now please, I needs to fell your cum. Then she did something she has never done before, she shook a bit, then went down on me and cleaned me up with her tongue. It felt amazing to have her lips wrapped around my shaft at the time.
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I get very well looked after by Mrs Balls, whether its full on sex, hand jobs or blow jobs. Now and again I will wake up and the first thing on my mind is cumming, usually I get up a couple of hours before Mrs Balls, so I masturbate and I’m always ready to go again if Mrs Balls wants some early morning loving.
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Yes I often wake up horny so have to sort myself out before going about the day
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Yes 99% of the time is the simple answer to your question
I would say that most of the time I get this urge is first thing in the morning, as the wife isn’t much of a morning person especially when Im getting up early for work I’ll sort myself out in the shower or in front of the toilet, my wife understands and is happy if i need to masturbate I’ll be in a better more relaxed mood for the rest of the day
Weekends are a bit different we tend to lay in and wife would be interested in having or mutual masturbation so on the occasion i say to her i need to cum we sort it out together 
There are times when I am very horny, and I know there is no chance of us getting together. I will take care of myself, usually away from her, though I have been leaning toward being with her and getting off, to let her share the experience. I haven’t been able to orgasm like that yet, but have played around a bit with her watching. I think I am still a bit shy about being that open about it.
I enjoy masturbation and orgasms and will typically masturbate once or twice a day. Often I’ll have a quick wank in the morning to get my day going followed by masturbating before bed.
Several times a week I enjoy a longer session where I typically set up my fuck machine or use a dildo to fuck my ass. These sessions are often and hour or two where I just focus on my prostate and anal pleasure. I love the sensations of a toy sliding in and out of my bum and across my pspot. During such sessions I may cum multiple times, enjoying full body and anal focused orgasms.
To finish up such sessions, when my ass has had enough, I typically masturbate to a final ejaculation using a fleshlight or lovehoney male wand.