When you want to be the bottom but it hurts?

I like it when my partner wants to be on top but i find it really hurts, because i dont do it that much it always kinda feels like a first time thing and have to use toys to kind of ease me in. looking for one that'll do the job but not be so painful so i can be ready to take....... Any suggestions???

Thanks I'll have a look :)

You might also look into sex position guides specifically geared toward gay men.

They are out there. I cant link to them, but just putting "sex position guide for gay men" in the search engine, will give you many many resources.

You and your partner can have lots of fun trying and you may come up with some comfortable ways while you are doing the stretching exercises Alicia has referred.