Always had very positive feedback… but I love doing it so I guess that helps
So she’s says doggy hurts her and you don’t believe her?
Yeah, you’re the problem. Sounds like you don’t actually know what she needs and wants from sex. Several times you’ve been told in this post to talk to her and the responses you are giving are just stating what you want.
Maybe she doesn’t need sex that frequently, maybe you are bad at it, or maybe she feels like sex is something for you and her desires don’t factor in to it.
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It sounds like there’s more going on that just you needing to improve your oral game.
You need to talk to her and listen to her responses. Your responses on here hint at you perhaps being a bit more centred on your own pleasure than hers. Perhaps it may be time to reflect on your own priorities in bed?
If you view everything through the lens of what is good for you, then it may be worth considering that a woman who is fulfilled by her partner is much more likely to reciprocate.
In a more delicate way I am trying to say you come over as possibly a little self centred when it comes to your bedroom life. Most women don’t like this.
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Tomorrow is housecleaning day
@batjamboree i could not aggre with you more when my OH goes down on me i just get so turned on i am dripping wet in seconds. Plus I have huge mulit orgasams
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I think I am. At least the OH tells me that. I could bury my face there all the time if i had the chance. Everything about doing it turns me on. If I had to chose one thing to do in the bedroom for the rest of my life it would be that.
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@deadhorsey welcome to The Forum.
As others have said you need to ask her why. I had a partner whose upbringing made her think this just wasn’t right and she felt uncomfortable. I let her know how much I loved the intimate close view, how delicious her vulva looked and how much I loved her smell and taste. She relaxed enough to let us try and over time has come to love me giving her oral . We’re all different though and if she really doesn’t enjoy it then just pleasure her in other ways.
Exactly that. Trixie loves it and I learn more about her needs every day. I only have to walk around her side of the bed and she stops whatever she is doing as she knows what’s about to happen.
Unless we are pretending that it’s oh-so-casual, in which case she’ll stay on her phone or continue reading or, if we are outside, light a cigarette. It’s a beautiful act, either way, though I can’t say I’ve ever liked the word pussy. Trixie owns the word c*nt and it’s the word we use
this is OH. I like it when Al goes down on me because he’s given me many O’s. He goes down on me if I didn’t cum from his penis too. 69 is fun. But it doesn’t always get me off
According to my neighbour, he is God’s gift to women. It makes me smile because in the six and a half year’s we’ve lived here, we’ve never heard him make a woman scream.
My husband, on the other hand, is your polite, modest, genuine nice guy. He won’t tell you he’s a nice guy though, he just is a nice guy. That man eats pussy because he wants to, because it turns him on and me at the same time, and I’ll be damned if he isn’t stopping until I’m pushing him off! He won’t tell you that he thinks he’s good at eating pussy though, he just knows he is.
It’s always the quiet ones 
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I love everything about this post
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My husband can bring me to orgasm with his tongue so I think that he is good as oral.
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Yeah I would say I’m good at it. Always really liked going down on women. And giving them a good time. Especially with the wife when we first got together she was a bit funny with me going down on her. As she hadn’t had much experience but after a few times she loved the feeling of it and the orgasms that came with it. Love licking and sucking on her bald pussy.
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My wife says i have an amazing tongue and that it always gives her an orgasm